Split Ends & New Beginnings

For posterity

2012-02-09T14:03:00.001-08:00

Lincoln made this great video of Clark. I am sure that most of you won't care, but for those of you who do care, enjoy.

Me and My Boys

2012-01-26T18:05:00.000-08:00

I really wish I had photoshop so I could take our heads and rearrange them to make the best picture. These were actually taken on Christmas. I feel like Clark has changed so much since they were taken. Not to mention, my hair has changed since then. I just had to post these since they are our most recent family photos. I really love having these two in my life.

Happy New Years's!

2012-01-24T17:36:00.000-08:00

Yes, it is January and I am writing about New Year's. I just have been so crazy that I am totally not caught up and I wanted to try and fill in the gaps. This post is picture heavy, so hang in there. My cousin, Stephanie, got married on New Year's Eve and it was awesome. She and my aunt threw the party of the year. Her colors were "sparkle" and everyone was dress in sparkles and sequence. Isn't that the best idea ever? Lincoln and I had a ball dancing the night away. Dancing and eating and laughing with family and loved ones is the best want to end the year and start the next one off right!

Most of the family before the reception.

My aunt and uncle with four of their five girls.

Katelynn showing her love for 2012

My brother and his girlfriend, Jessie.

Don't mind the sweat, this was after lots of dancing.

There was a cookie and milk bar at midnight.

Meryn and Brittany

My sister and her husband, Nikki and Cameron.

My mom and Margo

Meryn and Dylann

P.S. I made my skirt for the occasion. I just couldn't find a party skirt that wasn't super short or old lady looking.

Me and my mom

Clark is getting so big

2012-01-24T17:20:00.000-08:00

Seriously, who is this kid? He is so big. I can't believe it. One of his favorite things to do is empty out all the drawers and buckets the he can. He just goes for it with reckless abandonment. Clark will empty all his clothes out of their drawer, all the kitchen drawers he can reach, and all of my makeup and hair stuff in the bathroom. He can empty his toy bin (old ottoman) in seconds flat. He then climbs into it and plays hide and seek with Lincoln and me. He is such a joy!

P.S. Do you see that nasty rash around his mouth? How do I get rid of it? I have used so many ointments and lotions, but they don't seem to work. It is from his love affair with the binkie. The poor kid just has sensitive skin like his mom. If there is any secret weapon that has worked for you, let me know.

So You Think You Can Sew

2012-01-24T16:23:00.000-08:00

Well, I obviously didn't make it to the final round in the sewing competition, or else I would be posting a project right now. I had so much fun and I learned so much. It is sort of ironic that I didn't make it to this round since this is the only round that I have more than one day to do my project. I have been so busy the month of January, adding these projects in the mix has been crazy. My busy schedule has only made my blogging suffer. I never really wanted my blogging to cause me any guilt, and it shows with how relaxed I am with posting. I mostly wanted to thank all of you for your wonderful support and encouragement. I am new to the sewing scene and I really felt the love with my little projects. I have loved sewing and I plan to continue doing it. I promise to share some of my stuff, if you promise not to get mad when me blogging lacks in posts.

Anyways, thank you all for your support. I couldn't of made it as far as I did without you, literally, I could not of made it without the votes. There is one more round of competition, so still vote for your favorite.

Urban Cowgirl

2012-01-17T19:35:00.000-08:00

This is the "sew something you can wear" portion of my SYTYCS challenge. Let me tell you, this was a challenge. I thought I would be all cool and show how even adults can wear ruffles. Well, I am not so sure anymore. I basically sewed this skirt with my seem ripper in my lap!! I know that basically goes against the idea of entering a challenge with a title asking me if I can sew, but whatever. I had a great time and I am SHOCKED that I even made it this far. I named this skirt after the fabric line from Moda that I used for the top and bottom ruffles. They are from the "Urban Cowgirl" line. Don't you just love this fabric? I do. If you also love the skirt, be a doll and vote for me here. Thanks for all your support it has been so much fun!

TOP 6!!!

2012-01-12T19:10:00.000-08:00

I can't believe it! I made it into the top six of my sewing competition. I seriously thought I would be out by now. THANK you all for voting and supporting me. I better get to my machine and start on the next project. Stay tuned, and THANK YOU SO MUCH for your votes!!!

So You Think You Can Sew; Week 2- Refurbish

2012-01-10T17:38:00.000-08:00

I was so excited to hear about the challenge for this week. I love cutting things up and trying to put them all back together.

I had this HUGE sweater my mom gave me that she used to wear back in the day. It was so soft and comfortable, but it looked awful. Lincoln was not a fan, and I just couldn't figure out what to do with it. I just put it in my "To-Do" bin and forgot about it. Once I heard about this challenge, I knew it was time to take the sweater out.

Due to some stains I knew I would have to dye it. It was my first time ever trying to dye fabric other than the few times I tie-dyed shirts. It took forever and it didn't really turn out the way I had planned, but it was a learning experience for sure.
I knew that after washing and drying it, the agitation would shrink it, so I planned on making something for Clark. However, after seeing the lavender color and how soft and fluffy the sweater became, I knew it would have to be for a girl. Luckily I have so many nieces in town it wasn't hard to get one to model for me.
Katelyn was more than happy to show her skill in modeling and style. She suggested we pair the outfit with her new boots and pink leggings.
With the extra fabric, I made a hat for her as well. There is only a few scraps left and I plan on making some fun rosettes for myself.
I was really happy to see how easy it was to sew with this fabric. After it was felted so much in the wash, it didn't fray or need ironing.

I am almost finished with the tutorial for how I made this little dress.

I have really enjoyed these challenges and I am SOOO grateful for all of your votes to help me move on. I would love your votes and support again this week. Please visit Ashley's blog to show me some love.

So, You Think You Can Sew- Week 2; Refurbish TUTORIAL

2012-01-10T17:04:00.001-08:00

This is how I made this...

Into these...

Seriously, isn't she a cutie pie.

I decided to dye it since the sweater was old and had a few stains. The fabric is Angora and Rayon which makes coloring it very tricky. I had to dye it twice and both times it didn't turn out anything like the color I had planned. I used the dye Idye from Joanne's. The first color I used was a deep blue but it turned more of a soft grey. The second color I used was actually a navy, but that only turned the sweater a soft lavender. I left it in the dye for over six hours the second time, but it still didn't work. Obviously, this was a major lesson on how to dye fabrics. Dying cotton is WAY easier.
After all of the washes (I never dried it in the dryer) all the agitation made the sweater felt and it shrunk. I was hoping it would, and I was happy with how much it did.
Once it was dry, I cut some pattern pieces out to make a ruff estimate on what I needed to cut out of the sweater. NOTE- I didn't end up making any mittens :( due to the lack of fabric left over.
I had to use the sleeves as a panel for the sides of the skirt so it would swing more. I didn't want it to be too tight. So, the mittens had to be sacrificed. I also sewed the buttons down in the front of the skirt so there was no gap or way it could open.
However, I didn't sew the button closed on the top in order for it to be slipped on and off easier. After I cut out the top, I realized I wanted a little sleeve. I used extra fabric from the sleeve and sewed it along the edge. I didn't have to hem the edge since the fabric was so felted. I liked the raw edge and decided to keep it.
I then cut the sleeves at a angle to allow some space for the armpits.
With the panels in the skirt, I had to gather the skirt at the waist.
Once gathered and even, I turned the top inside out and placed the skirt inside it so it was right sides together. Make sure the buttons were lined up before I started sewing. I folded the bottom up and just made a simple hem.
I measured the hat size around Clark to see what a baby's head should be like. I then sewed up the side to make a sort of tube. I used the finished edge of the sweater so I wouldn't have to worry about the bottom. I then folded the hat in fourths and sewed each side to the middle.
Next, I took each of the little corners and sewed a angle 1.5 inches from the top to the middle. I don't think that makes sense, but I had cut the corners off before I took this picture, so... sorry.
I turned it back right side in and sewed some extra buttons from the dress to the front. However, you see that we put a flower on it instead. It really pulled out the leggings that my niece wanted to wear. She is such a fashionista that I just went with it.

This was my first time trying to do a sewing project while I did a tutorial when I don't have a full plan on how I want to do it. I was just fly by the seat of my pants as I was working on this. I think that can make the best projects. Just use all of your sewing knowledge and go for it. What do you have to lose?

Thank you all so much for you amazing support. Don't forget to vote for this project over at Mommy by Day, Crafter by Night.

My new obsession

2012-01-06T10:32:00.000-08:00

I would like to first give a BIG HUGE thank you for all of your votes. I made it to the third round and I am so excited. Let's just say I have a really fun idea for the next project and I am hoping it has lots of WOW factor.

On another note, I have been wanting to post my latest favorite song. I found it a few months ago on a friends blog and I have been in love with it ever since. The video is also really amazing and I find myself thinking about it and singing the song in my head all day. It's Gotye, "Somebody that I used to know" featuring Kembra (she has some other really great songs.)

Here's the kicker, just this morning, Lincoln and I came across this great video of a group doing a cover of the song. I don't think I have ever seen a cover done like this before. I totally love it.

Didn't you just get goosebumps? Thanks again for voting for me and stay tuned for my next project.

The Crib Caddy

2012-01-03T14:12:00.000-08:00

THE CRIB CADDY

Hey, Ladies! Have you ever found yourself in your baby's bedroom in the dark on your hands and knees desperately searching for your baby's pacifier? Have you ever looked at your child's snotty nose and thought, "Where's a wipe when you need one?" Or have you ever wished you could you put your baby thermometer in a more convenient location?

If the answer to any of these questions was "YES!" then I have just the thing for you: "The Crib Caddy™."

This simple yet elegant crib accessory is the perfect place to put all your crib crisis corrective contraptions.

"The Crib Caddy: Addressing Your Baby's Needs . . . with Style."

*Baby not included.

**Patent pending.

Explanation-

Here it is, the big surprise, I am in the top 12 for the sewing competition I entered. I was waiting to tell everyone for fear that they would realize that I was actually in the bottom twelve and they told me the top twelve by mistake. I was very shocked, flattered, and extremely out of my league. It couldn't have come at a worse time. December is a crazy time for us at the salon, and I had two weddings I was doing hair for. Not to mention, I also had Christmas and New Year's to deal with. Needless to say, I was a little frazzled. I really was excited for the competition, but I didn't get started until Sunday night. I was mentally done with my project, just not physically done. I knew what I wanted to do, I just needed to get my act together and finish it. So, without further ado, here is my first project for So, You Think You Can Sew.

Supplies-

I used the Arcadia fabric from Moda. I had a old Honey Bun and Charm Pack laying around for years just waiting to be used. The buttons are old brass and silver buttons my mom gave me.

How to Vote-

If you would like to vote for me, go to Mommy by Day Crafter by Night and follow the rules. THANKS!!

Christmas music I love

2011-12-17T21:06:00.000-08:00

This is the song that Lincoln plays every year as we decorate the tree. He says it isn't Christmas until we listen to this song. I have to admit, it brings a tear to my eye every time I hear it. Enjoy, and Merry Christmas!

Christmas music I love

2011-12-15T21:02:00.000-08:00

Lincoln actually turned me onto this song. It is just beautiful. Enjoy, and Merry Christmas!

Christmas music I love

2011-12-12T20:53:00.000-08:00

I am a firm believer that every holiday has its turn. I don't listen to Christmas music before Thanksgiving just as I don't wear Halloween costumes in June. Ok, maybe I do wear costumes on other occasions then Halloween, but not often. The point is, I love Thanksgiving so much that I wait until after to listen to music, decorate, or think about anything "Christmasy." Once Thanksgiving is over, it is a free for all and Christmas is ALL over the place. One of my favorite things about this time of year, besides the spirit, is the music. I hate bad Christmas music just as much as I LOVE great Christmas music. Here is a sample of one of my favorite Christmas albums this year. It is a must listen. Don't you just love all things Zoe? I sure do. Enjoy, and Merry Christmas!!

P.S. This isn't even my favorite one, it is just the only one I could find.

Confusing our kid one fake beard at a time

2011-12-10T20:40:00.000-08:00

The hand-off

The attempted getaway

The pleading and crying

Finally, saved by mom... wait, who is that behind the beard?

We are back from our (amazing) trip. I have many pictures to share, but in the meantime I wanted to show you all what we did today. Lincoln was asked to be the Santa for our Ward Christmas party. He did a great job. His Santa voice was jolly with a little Sean Connery mixed in. He would ask the kids the funniest things and almost always used their names. Their reactions were so cute. Clark was the only kid who tried to pull his beard off. I am almost tempted to buy a nice Santa outfit (the outfit he was given was lame) and have him do this as a second job!

We decorated our house (finally) and I have purchased almost all of my gifts. It really is beginning to look a lot like Christmas!

Thankful for getting away

2011-11-23T19:15:00.000-08:00

I know I have not blogged all week, but I have been busy with a very sick baby and a crazy work schedule. Not to mention, I have been busy getting ready for our trip to HAWAII on friday!! I am SOO excited to go. I finished my long 11 hour work day today and I drove away feeling all giddy knowing I don't go back until December 7!!! I am thrilled to have this time to spend with my boys. We are going with Lincoln's family and I just can't wait!!

If I was a really dedicated/crazy blogger, I would have set up a bunch of guest bloggers to fill in while I am away. Well, I didn't, I just don't want to worry that much about this little hobby of mine. So, I will see you on the flip side. I will be sure to have many great pictures and stories to share (a one year old on a 13 hour plane ride!!) and I have some makeup tutorials and posts for you once I get back. Love to all and Happy Thanksgiving.

Activity Day

2011-11-17T12:12:00.000-08:00

My adorable niece asked me to come teach the girls all about hair for her activity days. I would do just about anything for that girl, so I gladly said yes. Activity Days is something they do at my Church were the little girls ages 8-10 (I think that's the ages) go and learn about different topics and work and crafts and just have a fun time. I wasn't sure what I would need to talk to these girls about, but they all seemed so excited to talk about hair that it really didn't matter what I said.

We talked about how often they should wash their hair, when and how to condition it, who should cut their hair (meaning, they should not cut their own hair), and how to pull their hair back in a ponytail, half ponytail, twist, and braid.

I had so much fun. I went to the dollar store and bought them each a brush and hair twisties. I tried teaching them how to braid with three pieces of yarn.

Some of the girls were experts, but some had no idea how to braid. It was so much fun to get them to figure it out. I was hoping they would just use the yarn to practice on, but some of the girls had other fun ideas with their finished braid. (This is my adorable niece, Sydney.)

After I was done, my sister helped all the girls make a silk flower to wear on a hair clip. Almost all of the girls wore the hair clip to church on sunday.

I have never been around so much giggling in all my life. We really tried to let the girls know that it doesn't really matter how you wear your hair, just as long as you keep it clean and healthy. These girls are adorable. I am so happy my niece asked me to do this for her. I love sharing what I know and seeing the delight in someone's eyes when they learn something new.

Happy Birthday Clark!

2011-11-16T07:36:00.000-08:00

Clark is one. I can't believe it. Time has literally flown by. Ok, I hate when people say "literally" when it isn't necessary, but it gave the statement meaning. Anyways, I just can't believe it. I love this little boy so much. Lincoln and I can hardly remember life without our little guy. Today I was day dreaming about not having him in my life and I almost started to cry. I grabbed him and gave him the tightest hug possible. This is a very difficult task since he is so not cuddly you have to practically hold him to your chest and pin his arms to his sides so he doesn't push you away. I just held him there for a few minutes thinking about how lucky and happy I am. I know SO many people who are struggling with trying to have kids. I recognize how fortunate Lincoln and I both are to have Clark. I don't take any of it for granted and I try to love every minute.

We celebrated his birthday with my family on Sunday and had some cake and ice cream with singing and gifts.

Clark was so unaware of what was going on but he seemed really happy. I wanted it to be all cute and decorated for his big day like all the pictures you see on other people's blogs, but give me a break, who is that really for when the baby is only turning one? I know he wouldn't care about or even notice the decorations. So, instead of freaking out and spending hours on making little banners and signs, I made a cake.

This is the first cake with frosting I have made from scratch, and I am SHOCKED at how much butter goes into making a cake. I am pretty sure it ruined cake eating for awhile. Ok, enough about me, here is a little update on what my dear boy is up to.

Clark is a very active boy. He loves the stairs so much that we had to finally give in and put a gate at the bottom of it, not before he fell down a few steps and "literally" got the snot scared out of him. (I didn't use that word out of context, he really did have snot all over him after the fall.) Clark refuses to walk and just wants to crawl, really fast, all over the place. He sometimes likes to tease his father and I and stand for a few seconds on his own before he sits down just to show us he knows how, but doesn't want to do it yet. I truly think Clark will eat just about anything. He makes a really funny face when he tries things for the first time, but still goes ahead and eats it. He LOVES suckers and will eat one through the wrapper if he has to.

He also loves cheese and cold cuts and will eat both so fast that I sometimes question if he even tastes it when he puts it in his mouth. Clark has a little giraffe blanket thing that he adores. He sucks and chews on all the corners of the little blanket even the head of the giraffe that is at one of the corners. I am pretty sure we need to find another of these blankets for backup in case the original is lost or dirty. Clark loves all electronic things, especially cords. He has also taken a liking to one of the drumsticks for our Rock Band and carries it around with him. I don't think this means he will be musical in his future, I think it just means he likes sticks. Clark is still a big fan of nursing and doesn't seem to have any interest in weening anytime soon, which is fine with me. Clark has been a HORRIBLE sleeper waking up about every two to three hours every night of his entire life! This has been very difficult for me and right when I thought I couldn't take it anymore, he has been sleeping ok for the last week. Let's hope I didn't jinx it.

Clark loves kids and babies waves with excitement when he sees them. Clark is a very cool boy, he is laid back and just goes with the flow. I really don't think he has given us any trouble besides the nighttime sleeping. I never imagined I would have so much fun with a baby. Lincoln loves that he can play with Clark and throw him around. Every time Lincoln comes home from work, Clark is so excited to see him.

Lincoln and I find so much fulfillment with our little buddy. We laugh all the time when we see his funny expressions. It is so amazing what a difference a year can make. We love our little Clark so much. Happy Birthday, Buster.

I love Marcel the Shell With Shoes On

2011-11-15T12:03:00.000-08:00

Please tell me you have seen Marcel on Youtube. It is a must see.

Well, they just came out with a second one. It makes me so happy and I find myself smiling the entire time I watch it.

When I was in college I tried really hard to have everyone call me "Sunny." I thought it would be a great nickname, but it is true that you can't give yourself a nickname.

Didn't this just make your day?

You were a little late

2011-11-11T19:21:00.000-08:00

If Clark was born on his actual due date, he would be turning one on 11/11/11. That would have been so cool. Alas, he was five days late and missed out.

I was not a very happy camper this time last year. I was beyond ready to have this baby. Today, however, I am overjoyed at how fortunate I feel for having my baby at all. Even if he did make me wait the extra five days... I was two weeks late for my mom.

"So, you think you can Sew"

2011-11-08T16:51:00.000-08:00

I am entering a contest, a sewing contest. I know, I am crazy. I just can't help myself, I love a challenge. I might be crazy, but I am not delusional. I know that my sewing skills are WAY below most of the sewers out there, but if I don't push myself, how will I ever grow. My friend, yes, the same girl I mention ALL the time on here, is having a sewing contest on her blog with awesome prizes. There are tons of people entered so I am not holding my breath. But without further ado, here is my first entry.

If I was really thinking ahead, I would have ironed it before taking this picture. Oh, well. It is a pattern called the school house tunic and it was really easy. Maybe I should have entered a more difficult project... I swear I can make harder stuff, this is just my most recent project. Oh, man, now I am wondering if I should have entered with something different...

Anyways, there is a funny story about when I made this. I was just about finished with it when I realized that it fit everywhere but over my stupid nursing boobs. (Nursing isn't stupid, just the crazy size that your boobs get while doing it.) I was so frustrated. I had to take the entire thing apart and sew panels on both sides to make it work. I bet Tim Gunn would have been proud.

Oh, did you notice my new cut and color? I really do need to make a post about it. I think it is my favorite color and cut on me OF ALL TIME!!!

How to cut a baby's hair

2011-11-08T11:22:00.000-08:00

It is happening, Clark is getting older. I can't believe it. I wouldn't believe it if it wasn't for how big he is getting and how long his hair is (was). I normally really like little boys with longer hair, but Clark only had long hair over the ears and it wasn't cute curly hair. It hung down past his earlobes and would stick out like a Umpa Lumpa. We just couldn't have that, so my husband and I decided to bite the bullet and cut his hair.

Cutting a baby's hair is way different than cutting a kids hair mostly because all the hair is grown out at different lengths and there might even still be some bald patches. Don't fret about those bald patches, they will grow in time. But until then, just cut the areas that are getting out of control and leave the rest to catch up.I would suggest you have your baby sitting in the highchair so he is strapped down and high enough for you to cut his hair without having to wrestle him with a pair of scissors in your hands.

Always have something to distract your baby. Clark doesn't watch T.V. or I would put a show on for him, but he does love to eat. If you do decide to give them food, make sure it isn't something that the hair could stick to like suckers or fruit. Instead, try crackers or puffs.
I just cut his hair dry since it is so fine, getting it wet might make the hair harder to work with. I pulled the area that I wanted to cut out straight from his head. Clark's long area is above the ears, but your baby might have a long section in the back or top. Cut the hair at a vertical section with a slight angle having your fingers closer to the ear, and going farther out towards the top of the head. Having your fingers between his head and your cutting line will help you to not cut his hair too short.
After you finish that section, drop it and comb it down to see how it looks. If it seems too long, just pick it up and cut a little bit more. I always suggest leaving it longer rather than cutting too much. Next, pick up a little bit of that section as well as another bit of hair behind it to cut. Using the cut section as a guide, cut the long hair you just picked up. Keep doing this until you go to the back of the head. You might find when cutting a baby's hair that the next section you pick up isn't long enough or you don't have any hair to cut. This is due to the unevenness of their hair growth. Clark has very short hair in the back, so I didn't have to cut too far back before I ran out of hair to cut.

Once you have finished the one side, go to the other side and start over. Be sure to double check your first section you are cutting to see that it is even with the previously cut section.

You can tell my the pictures that Clark was not enjoying himself near the end. Just be sure to work fast and watch for any ears or fingers that might get in the way, you don't want to cut anything more than just hair.

If you have any questions, just let me know. There is so much more to cutting a actual kids cut, but I thought I would just start with cutting baby hair.

After giving him the cut, Lincoln and I are just shocked at how old he looks with it shorter. He for sure looks better, just too old. I can't believe my baby is going to be 1 next week. Boy does the time fly.

Just ROLL with it

2011-11-01T18:19:00.000-07:00

I had the great opportunity to be a guest blogger on one of my good friends blogs while she was out of town. I know what you are thinking, why would she ask me? I am not the most consistent blogger these days. But, for whatever reason, she asked me and I was happy to do it. I did a silly little video about hot rollers and I thought it was time I shared the post with you. Please check out her blog when you get a chance, she is awesome and she does some creative outfits. You might remember her from this post too.

Enjoy!

Well, hello Mommy Crafters. I am Mallory from splitendsandnewbeginnings and Ashley asked me to guest post for her today. Ashley is sort of my blog mentor if you will. She is super encouraging when it comes to making my blog a better place for all things hair and beauty, but I just don't seem to have the blog skills that she possesses. With her guidance, I am sure I can find my inner blogger. I am just so happy that she asked me to guest post so I can work on said blogging skills.

Let me tell you a little about myself. I have been doing hair now for over 10 years and I LOVE it. I think your hair is your BEST accessory. I say "accessory" and not a "feature" because you can change it and adjust it to your mood and to whatever look you want to show for that day. You can do so much with it and it can do so much for you. I feel my best when my hair has fresh color and cut. After having so many of my clients ask me how to do their hair in different and fun ways I decided to challenge myself by styling my hair different for 30 days. I got the idea from my good blog friend over at Hair Romance. It was such a fun challenge and it really helped to inspire both myself and many of my clientele. After finishing the challenge I decided to try and keep my blog going with the occasional hair and beauty tips and ideas. I think it is very important to look and feel your very best. Even in a pair of sweats and no makeup, we can still learn to appreciate the beauty that we possess inside (I sound like a Whitney Houston song.) Anyways, I am getting a little off track. I just want to share the love of all things girlie.

I have a few video tutorials on my blog and I made one special for all of you who follow Ashley. I have to warn you, I am a little embarrassing. When you watch yourself doing your hair or looking at yourself in the mirror, it is totally awkward. I drop things, I repeat myself, my throat gets totally dry and I get a really itchy nose once the camera starts recording. At least I remembered to put the toilet seat down this time and I was able to edit out the two phone calls that I received. Oh, the joys of blogging! Enjoy!

If you have any questions, let me know on my blog, and I will get back to you.

Have a happy hair day!

The Costumes

2011-10-31T19:06:00.001-07:00

Don't you hate it when you work so hard on something, but don't take ANY good pictures!!! We got all dressed up in our family costumes for our church Halloween party, but it was so cold that we had our coats on the entire time. The pictures we did take were rushed and you can't really see how cute Clark is. You will just have to trust me that he looked adorable. Lincoln wanted us to be the "Super Family" so I made us all capes and shirts with a "F" for Fielding on it. I wanted the costumes to look homemade, and I think I achieved my goal. They looked VERY homemade.

Clark loves his suckers

We all had a lightning bolt on our capes to add a little pizzaz. I wish I took some better pictures, but it was so crazy and cold that taking pictures was the last thing on my mind.

Oh, well. It turned out to be a great night. I love my "Super Family."

Halloween- then and now

2011-10-31T18:47:00.000-07:00

This is what Clark was doing last year.

This is what he was doing this year.

Ok, so he wasn't really doing much in the first picture other than sitting REALLY low in my hips. My cute niece decided to show her artistic ability and color my big "pumpkin." This year, Clark couldn't get enough of his favorite new treat- suckers. He is a pro at the tootsie pops. He was happy as a clam just chillin' in the wagon sucking away on the sugary goodness.

Oh, what a difference a year makes.

Stiff Upper Lip

2011-10-04T13:01:00.000-07:00

I am about to get very real. Let's put everything out on the table and discuss something that every women needs to think about. Let's talk about FACIAL HAIR.

"Hi, my name is Mallory and I get my lip waxed."

WOW, that felt so good to get out. Not that it was some huge secret, but I needed to share it in order for me to talk about it. I want you to take a long hard look in the mirror and ask yourself if you need your lip waxed too.

Pros of getting your lip waxed-

Skin appears smoother.
Lipstick looks better.
You don't have a mustache.
Makeup goes on better.

Cons of getting your lip waxed-

NOTHING!!!

I swear, it hurts for like a mili- second, and that's all. My husband loves that I get my lip waxed. In fact, I think he wishes I got it waxed more often. There are just way too many ladies walking around with she-stashes.

My hairy lip before-

My lip after-

Side note: The after picture doesn't do it justice and I am really regretting not fixing my lipstick before I took the picture. I SWEAR it makes a huge difference. Also, the before picture was taken forever ago. Before I actually got around to getting my lip waxed, I had a forest of blonde hair above my lip. It was horrible.

Getting your lip waxed is not expensive. It hurts less than getting your legs waxed and WAY less than getting your bikini waxed. HELLO! The point is, it just needs to be done if you have hair there.

Ok, thank you for letting me share. I am now stepping off of the soap box.

Wrap it up

2011-09-30T12:21:00.000-07:00

I just found this on Pinterest, and it is the scarf tutorial of all scarf tutorials. I love how she does it. I WILL be trying these all fall and winter long.

Tie one on

2011-09-28T17:21:00.000-07:00

Wearing a pretty scarf can change any look in a instant. I love a good scarf around my neck, but I also can't resist the way it also looks in my hair.

There are a million ways to wear a scarf. I seen like a million ideas on Pinterest. The picture below is a great idea of what there is out there in terms of how you can wear you scarves. However, when I took a closer look at how some of the scarves are tied in the picture, I couldn't help but laugh out loud. Obviously, some of these scarf ideas remind me of my fifth grade teacher, but some of them are really cool and I think it just goes to show you that scarves can be worn at any age. (Way to go Karen for having such a great style blog for women!)

And, if you really want to see how to wear your scarf like a pro, check out the amazing Keiko Lynn. Seriously, go, check her blog out. She can tie a head scarf and look like a model. Whenever I tried to wear my hair and scarf like that, I am told I look like bum.

Anyways, I just love a good scarf. I would have posted a million pictures of people wearing them, but you get the idea. Point is, wear a scarf. It's easy, it's fun and it will add a little pop to your style.

Have fun...

I'm not dead...

2011-09-21T06:16:00.000-07:00

...just busy working.

I have a few posts in the works, but I have been so crazy with other things, that I just have not had the time to work on them.

Here are a few things I have been working on...

another curling iron tutorial, a eyeliner tutorial (MAKEUP!), a discussion on a serious topic that all women need to take care of, taking care of chlorine hair, and how to get that extra shine in your hair. I also want to discuss some of the best looks of the Emmys.

Get excited, and stay tuned.

Fall Trends- according to InStyle

2011-09-15T12:04:00.000-07:00

The first thing I notice about Fall is the change in the air. Followed by the gorgeous colors showing up in nature. There is change all around. I LOVE fall. The only thing I struggle about Fall, it is followed by Winter. So sad, but let's not get ahead of ourselves. Focus on Fall. It is coming whether we like it or not.

I have a giant stock of boots ready to go and the crock pot on stand by for some chili. I just cut my hair off and changed the color, so I feel pretty ready for a season change. How are you doing? Are you ready?

Here are some great color and cut ideas from InStyle for Fall. Do check them out and get inspired.

Cuts

This new cut of Dianna Agron is my favorites.

Color

We all know how much I love gorgeous red hair, but this creamy blonde of Charlize Theron is awesome.

Click on the words "cut" and "color" to look at more great ideas for Fall brought to you by InStyle.

Blonde Ambition

2011-09-14T11:56:00.000-07:00

I tried the ombre thing and it was great and all, but I missed the brightness around my face. A few hours later, and Ta-Da! I feel like me again.

Thank you, Wendy for the great color. I think this might be step one on me going REALLY blonde...

I love hair changes.

Video Tutorial- Flat Iron Curls

2011-09-13T11:04:00.000-07:00

I know, I know, I have been totally M.I.A. Balancing my responsibilities as a wife, mother, and hairstylist can be a little tricky. I do what I can, but if the blog suffers a bit for it, I apologize.

I did this tutorial a few weeks ago, and I hated it. I was so embarrassed with how I look and sound. I did it after a long day of running around. I didn't want to post it, but I figure it had some useful tips. Don't mind the fact that the toilet lid is up.

I wanted to show you the simple steps in curling with a flat iron. I get that there are probably many techniques and ways to do this, this is just my own little style. I do make my hair curlier or even straighter with the flat iron depending on how small the section is and how tightly I turn the iron as I go down the strand. If you want lots of curls, just use smaller sections and turn the iron around more often as you pull it down the strand. Still do the 180 degree turn at the base, just turn the iron more as you pull out. You will understand when you see the video.

I tend to like my hair on the messy side these days. I think it looks a little too messy in the video, but you get the idea from what I am doing. Flat iron curls just take practice. Once you get them down you will have so much fun and so much freedom on how loose or tight you want your curls to be. Have fun.

P.S. I promise to remember to put the toilet lid down for the next video. I also promise to find a way to not bang my comb, product, and flat iron down when I am done with them.

P.P.S. I know most people call the type of flat iron I used a F-H-I, I just say it all together as FHI. Potato, Potato.

P.P.S.S. The Lanza spray wax is now discontinued. I hope (fingers crossed) they are just working on making it better. You can use other spray waxes to achieve the same result.

Have a happy hair day!

"In the Dressing Room with Cat Deeley"

2011-09-05T17:12:00.000-07:00

Everyone needs a style icon. I have a few icons that always seem to inspire me with how they wear their hair, makeup and dress. I am not shy about telling people who they are. In fact, I wrote a post about one of my style icons/crushes. Cat Deeley in my opinion is awesome! If she met me, we would be friends. What am I talking about? I mean if I met her! Either way, we would still be friends. I love her hair, her clothes, her makeup, her attitude. She is just all around cool. I know there are a few haters out there (Dan Heder) but I don't care, I find her to be totally awesome. Lincoln knows how much I appreciate her style and he sent me the most amazing link ever today. Did you know that Cat has a fashion blog?!?! It is so great. She has a bunch of videos with her hair and makeup girls showing how she got ready for So You Think You Can Dance, award shows and many other things. It is amazing!! She even gives away some of her old looks!!! Why didn't Lincoln find this sooner!! If you have even a second of time this weekend, do yourself a favor and check them out. I am in love!

Time for Tuesdays

2011-08-30T16:46:00.001-07:00

Lincoln and I have been going over our budget and we came across some very interesting information. We spend a FORTUNE on groceries!!! I don't get it. We are just feeding the two of us and I rarely (sorry Lincoln) make anything extravagant. I just don't know how/am terrified to try. We eat basic food and I even buy lots of generic stuff. Unfortunately, I am CONSTANTLY throwing food out after it goes bad. Looking back on our expenditures we noticed that we were going to the store like three days in a row and making big purchases. I have no idea what we are doing.

My Time for Tuesdays today was going to be about how to take care of a chlorine head of hair, but today we need to talk food. How do you spend your time preparing your menu, grocery list, budget for food? I don't have the answer, I need them from you.

Let's make a deal, I will tell you about how to save your hair from chlorine, if you give me good ideas on how to save money on food. Deal?

Going Short

2011-08-29T17:02:00.000-07:00

Jamie and Joanne are mother and daughter clients of mine who where ready for a big change. They both have VERY fine hair with big cowlicks in the front. Jamie, the daughter, has more curl and body, but was ready for a big change. Joanne was sick of having to spend all morning trying to give a style to her limp hair. She wanted something fun and easy to work with. They have plans to attend a big wedding next weekend and wanted to show off their drastic change to their friends and family. Let's just say, having clients like them totally make my day.

Jamie before- She wanted to have something totally short with a bang to sweep over her forehead.

Jamie after- This new shape shows off her gorgeous face shape and jaw. Her cowlick was a challenge, but with enough texture and length, her bangs lay perfect. I think she looks like a modern day Audrey Hepburn.

Joanne before- Joanne has always liked herself with bangs, but her cowlick is very strong. We find that when her hair is cut short enough her bangs and hair can blend together and it helps to disguise her cowlick. Joanne also has very fine hair and even with her bob, her hair still wasn't giving her the body that she wanted.

Joanne after- When hair is fine, you have to be careful to not texturize too much. However, when you layer and cut the hair just right it gives you the volume at the crown that everyone wants. Joanne also didn't want to mess with her hair too much and she wanted the style youthful and easy.

I really think that if you want the best haircut possible, you need to go into it like Jaime and Joanne. They both had an idea of what they wanted, but were willing to listen to my feedback and opinion. Cutting your hair short doesn't have to be scary, it can be a fun and uplifting experience.

Short Hair- Glamorous Style

2011-08-28T16:45:00.000-07:00

I have SOO many clients who think they need to grow their hair out before a big event. They think that having it long will give them more options with a glamorous style. Maybe having more length does give you more options, but there are still so many styles for hair that is shoulder length and shorter.

One of my clients on Saturday was a bridesmaid with gorgeous short hair. Meg, wanted her style to look stylish and not dated. I worked a flat iron over the entire back to give her curl and volume. We wanted the front to be polished and not so huge, so I shaped the curls into a soft finger waves and pin curls. It isn't a tight finger wave, but it still gave the front of her hair structure and interest. I think Meg is a great example of a gorgeous short hair style for weddings or nice events.

The point is, don't sweat it if your hair is on the shorter side and you have a big event coming up. There are many options for your hair. Just have a open mind and trust in your stylist, and you could end up with a beautiful style.

The Versatile Blogger Award

2011-08-26T11:41:00.000-07:00

What?! I can't believe this! My good friend Rachel over at Family Ever After nominated me for this little blog award. Now, Rachel is FAR more advanced in this blogging thing than me, so I am so touched that she would even think of me for this.

Here are the rules for this little award nomination:

After accepting the Versatile Blogger Award, the blogger must:
1. Thank the person who gave the award and link back to them in your post.
2. Share 7 things about yourself.
3. Pass this award along to 10 recently discovered blogs.

So, number 1 is complete.  Thanks again, Rachel. Now for number 2- share 7 random things about me.

1.  I didn't get my license until I was 21.  I was too scared to try and I didn't see the point.  I know, I am weird.

2. I "dissect"  all of my food.  Lincoln thinks I analyze every thing I put into my mouth.  If it looks like it is a weird texture, color, or taste I wont eat it.  With that said, I am not picky, just particular.

3. I went to college KNOWING that all I wanted to do was hair.  I changed my major a million times and I was miserable.  I finally convinced my mom that I was not just "going through a phase" but was serious about going to cosmetology school.  Once I started at Paul Mitchell, I never looked back.

4. My husband is five years younger than me.  I guess that makes me a cougar.

5. I have lived in Columbus for almost 10 years now, and I still get lost ALL THE TIME.  Some jerk stole my GPS and I am miserable without it.

6.  Singing in public is one of my biggest fears.  My husband has the best singing voice, so luckily he drowns me out when singing in church.

7.  Almost everyone in my family can cook and bake incredibly well.  My mom actually sells her  cookies at my aunt and uncles store, but I have never made cookies from scratch in my entire life and my poor husband usually ends up eating salad for dinner.

And, now for the 10 blogs I have found and enjoyed recently are:

1. angry baker - her hair, her writing, her style all amazing

2. Lily Susannah 

3. Scruples 

4. Freckles 

5. The Woods 

6. Mommy by Day 

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.Ok, I know that is only 6, but I feel bad already by listing some of these people.  I know that sometimes it is a pain to have your name tagged like this without your permission.  And, I did a thing like this a few years ago where I tagged all my friends then too.  All the other blogs I have found recently were already tagged by Rachel.  I guess that is the point, if I tag them then my friends will find them too  blah, blah, blah.  I guess  am just breaking the rules and only listing 6.  I am not ungrateful for Rachel nominating me, I am just ready for bed.  Thank you, and good night.

Sew very fun- Guest Post

2011-08-25T17:39:00.001-07:00

I know, I know, I haven't done a hair tutorial in way too long. I promise I will get to it soon. I have been so busy. School is back in session, and even though I don't have kids in school, work has been CRAZY with all my clients who are going back to school. I love giving a good back to school hair style. I think everyone no matter the age feels so much better about themselves once their hair is done.

Ok, back to this post. I got together with one of my good friends Ashley over at Mommy by day...Crafter by night to do a tutorial on making a tote bag. I have to admit, making the bag is a super easy, but tutorialing (a new word) it took longer than expected. Luckily, Clark has a little crush on Ashley's little girl and hanging out with Ashley is a great way to spend my day. I promise making this bag will be quick and fun. Go check it out.

What was I thinking?

2011-08-25T13:50:00.001-07:00

I remember my mom telling me that I reminded her of a Dallas Cowboy Cheerleader in this dance outfit. WHAT?!! I think I was trying to make my hair as soft and fluffy as possible. Oh, the power of a perm.

Time for Tuesday

2011-08-23T14:12:00.000-07:00

My hands are very special to me. I use them ALL day at work and home. I use them to cut, color and style my clients hair, and I use them to clean, cuddle and nourish Clark. I use them to give Lincoln a head scratch (although, he would say I don't do it enough). I use my hands until they are sore, cracked and tired. I am sure you use your hands just as much. Are you taking care of your hands? I know I need to do a better job at keeping my hands looking good, but not just my hands, my nails too.

picture found here

I usually don't think about my nails, and before I know it, they are all grown out and looking ragged. I used to paint them once a week and keep them all short and trimmed. Now I don't seem to even think about my nails. I have been so inspired with all the great nail colors and polish ideas I am seeing on Pinterest these days. I want to dedicate this "time for tuesday" to painting your nails. Having polished nails makes such a difference in how I feel about the look of my hands. I have always complained that I have "man-hands." However, when they are all fresh and polished, I feel so much better about them.

picture found here

Is this not the coolest idea ever!!

picture found here

Tips on giving yourself a great manicure-

Having a free edge (the part of the nail that grows past the nail bed) can cause your polish to chip faster. When the free edge bends, the paint chips and peals off. If your nails are shorter, your polish will last longer.
A good top coal and bottom coat will totally keep your manicure going for much longer.
Make sure your nails are clean and dry before you start to polish. Any oil or wetness on the nail bed will keep the polish from drying properly.
Let your nails dry for a good 30-45 minutes before you do anything that might damage the paint. When you think they might be dry, touch two of your nails together, if they stick at all then they are still wet.

Now, I am sure I need to take some baby steps with getting back into painting my nails before I try anything as fancy as the nails in the pictures. But, I am sure these girls all started small too. I think just a little extra love for our hands and nails is all we need to make sure our digets stay looking and feeling there very best.

Ginger Love- Sarah

2011-08-23T13:43:00.000-07:00

I have and always will be totally envious of anyone with red hair. REAL red hair. I have died my hair red many times, and take it from me, it just isn't the same. Let me explain- The red color molecule is the smallest color molecule. When you color your hair, it goes into the hair shaft all nice and comfy, but is so small that the first time you wash your hair, it just can't hold itself into the shaft for very long and your red gorgeous hair fades so very fast. It just isn't fair!

I know many red heads and I have always secretly (and sometimes not so secretly) been totally jealous of their hair color. (I know, I shouldn't covet.) However, for some reason, red hair has so many myths and stigmas about it. This book is fascinating if you want to know more about redheads. Like, did you know that red hair actually stems from a genetic mutation?!

Ok, I digress, I want to introduce you to three of my favorite Ginger beauties. I asked them to answer a few questions and send some pictures to help us better understand the power of red hair. I am sure that once you read the very creative and funny answers and look at the gorgeous pictures, you too will have red hair envy.

1. Have you always and forever loved your red hair, or have you ever wanted to or tried to die it?
I consider my hair to be strawberry-blond, not red. And strawberry-blond hair, in my opinion, is even more coveted than red hair. So, at the risk of sounding SUPER vain, yes, I have always loved my hair color. I even wrote a journal entry about my hair in high school and how it was one of my best traits. And by the way, hair isn't even a trait, it's a feature, but I was in high school and obviously not very bright.

The only times I died it were my junior/senior year of high school. And it was stupid. I used a box from the grocery store and it only made my hair orange/red. I was never brave enough to try and dye it black or brown, at least not from a box. I was always told that I would NEVER get my natural strawberry-blond hair color back and I didn't want to risk it. Having said that, I do sometimes envy girls, like yourself Mallory, that can pretty much rock any hair-style and color and pull it off. I just don't think it's my asethitic to have any other hair color. Sometimes I do get bored with it, but in the end, I just don't think I would ever do anything crazy to it in fear of never getting my natural hair color back.
2. If you have died it, what was the reactions of others?
See question #1, never really died it. If I did dye it, I think my Dad would die! He loves my hair! Sounds funny, but it's true.
3. Do you secretly hate it when you see people (ie, me) try to copy your God given color by dying their hair?
I don't secretly hate it when people try to copy my hair color. I am actually flattered.
4. Were you or are you now teased for your hair color?
I was never teased for my hair color. The only thing I can think of involving hair and teasing is Anne of Green Gables. Love that movie! I was teased for other things, but never my hair. Perhaps I wouldn't feel so confidant about my hair color had I grown up being teased about it.
5. Do you think it is true what they say about red heads have a lower pain tolerance?
I was told red-heads feel pain more than any other color of hair, but not all have the same pain tolerance. And I believe that I have a high-tolerance of pain. So, I guess I don't think it's true. Maybe I like to think I'm tougher than I really am.
6. Do you think that it is actually the Gingers, and not the Blondes that have more fun?
To me, that's based on personality, not hair color.
7. Would you guess that it is harder to be a redheaded boy or redheaded girl, or does it matter?
Of course it matters! I can probably name on two hands the amount of good-looking/hot red-headed men that exist in our world. So, I think it's way harder to be a red-headed boy than girl, as far as looks go. I think red-headed boys have more of an awkward stereotype than red-headed girls.

First the worst, Second the best

2011-08-19T12:45:00.000-07:00

Check it out! My Salon was just voted the number 2 salon in America!! By Beauty Entertainment Magazine!!

So proud.

Bangs, Color, Eyes

2011-08-19T12:13:00.001-07:00

I think it is so important to have your cut and color bring out the best in your skin and features. When done right, your color and cut can make your eyes pop, your face seem longer, your skin glow, you hair shine... you get the idea.

Shane and Kara (two of my coworkers) are great examples of how bangs and color can bring out your eyes and skin.

Shane was blessed with RIDICULOUSLY gorgeous eyes, she makes them pop even more by coloring her hair this bright red with some copper, blonde and even some purple lowlights. Her heavy fringe draws your attention to her fantastic eye.

Kara is a great example of how you can be a bright blonde without making your skin all washed out. Her face framing fringe (say that three times fast) is light and pieced out enough to keep her face long and thin.

Shane's color done by Brindel at Charles Penzone Dublin

Kara's color done by Amanda at Charles Penzone Dublin

What was I thinking?

2011-08-17T13:43:00.000-07:00

Time for Tuesdays

2011-08-16T13:27:00.000-07:00

Take a good hard look at yourself in the mirror. Look at your hair, is it luxurious, or is it fried?

There is just no reason at all to have dried out hair. It is time to take control of your hair. After this long hot summer you need to be honest with yourself and think whether you got too much sun damage. Are you due for a haircut? Probably. By the time your hair grows to your shoulders the ends are about three years old!! Think about that. How have you taken care of your hair during those three years? We don't even want to mention how old your hair is if it reaches the middle of your back!

My point is we all need to take better care of your hair, and it takes just a few minutes once a week. It is time to DEEP CONDITION!! I deep condition my hair every other week sometimes every three. I just put the deep conditioner in my ends and let it sit for a few extra minutes while I shave my legs or luffa my body. I rinse it off with cooler water (hot water is too drying) and I am good to go. That few minutes is all it takes to help me have stronger, shinier hair. Let's be honest, I do SO MUCH to my hair, but with the regular deep conditions and trims, I can get away with it.

It's time, go out and get yourself a good deep conditioner today. You will be glad you did.

My favorites are Moroccanoil Intense Hydrating Mask (duh, have I mentioned how much I love Moroccanoi?) and Schwarzkopf Bonacure Repair Rescue Treatment

The Schwarzkopf is cheaper and it will condition your hair, but the Moroccanoil is more concentrated and I don't think I need as much to do the job. So, you are almost spending the same money since the Moroccanoil seems to last longer.

Cha Cha Cha Changes- Alex

2011-08-15T19:10:00.000-07:00

Alex is awesome. She cracks me up. Her sister Sarah did a blog post about how upset Alex was over The Hills being canceled. She is just a fun girl. The other day she wanted to know what I thought about whether she should get bangs/fringe. We text back and forth and she decided to go for it.

Alex before.

Alex after.

She is proof that you don't need to cut off 9 inches of hair to make a big change. I think she looks great. I LOVE her glasses. I think she looks fresh and adorable with her new bangs. Way to go Alex.

Got any fun changes? Send me your before and after pictures and I will post them on my blog. Email me at splitendsandnewbeginnings(at)gmail(dot)com

She Bangs!

2011-08-14T14:39:00.000-07:00

Bangs can be so scary for some people. The idea of growing them out is terrifying. I promise it isn't that big of a deal. You have to make small adjustments as they grow out, but I swear it will be more of an adventure rather then a painful process. I have been cutting my bangs and growing bangs out almost my entire life. It is just part of my hair cycle.

Let me take you on my little journey of what it was like growing my bangs out. I know this might seem a little narcissistic, but it is only meant to show you the little things you can do to make the growing out not so painful. Oh, and if I knew that I was going to do a post on my bangs, I would have taken better pictures of just my bangs, and not full body shots. Oh, well.

Let's begin. This first picture is of my bangs when I first got them cut. I wanted them across my forehead and textured. I think they ended up WAY too short for my face. I blame myself, since I was the one who cut them. You see, after doing hair for over ten years and even I have a hard time cutting my own bangs. DON'T DO IT, it can only lead to problems. Because you are cutting right in front of your eyes, your vision is blocked making it so difficult to see what you are doing. It is best to leave it to someone else to cut your bangs. Trust me!

February 17

This picture shows them starting to grow out. It didn't take too long and I was much happier to have the bangs at this length.

March 3

This is when I was still keeping my bangs at the length that I liked, but I was working on having the corners of the bangs grow out a bit to help frame my face. I know this picture is goofy, but I think you can sort of see the longer face framing strands a bit.

March 20

I wore them down until I start to show, then I starting to push them over to the side. I was so worried about my face getting fat during the pregnancy that I thought growing my bangs out would help.

June 1

Really growing to the side.- June 27

By this time, I was getting huge and ready to pop. I was that pregnant girl who wasn't ready for any changes to her hair, so I was sort of maintaining them around this length.

October 9

After Clark was born, I started to get serious about growing my bangs out again. I started to wear head bands and use bobby pins to hold it back. I swear, I had bobby pins in EVERY pocket.

February 19

I didn't decide to grow them out and just not cut them at all, I went gradual and I kept them trimmed so they wouldn't be damaged or get too heavy. Like I said before, growing them out is a process and it can be fun. You just have to be creative and work with them. Bobby pins will save your life! They are now grown out past my chin and I was just thinking the other day about maybe cutting them again!! I tell you, bangs can be so much fun, you just need to go for it and enjoy the ride.

Bangs 101

2011-08-12T12:39:00.000-07:00

The big question I seem to get asked by my clients over and over again is whether or not they should get bangs. There are so many variables to understand before I can answer the question and so many things you should know about bangs before you should jump right into it. I want teach you all there is to know about bangs, so you will be able to decide for yourself, "should I get bangs?"

What are bangs?- In the hair world we actually call them "fringe." The word "bang" actually means to have sex with someone, seriously, but we have adapted it to also mean the hair hanging above our foreheads. However, I have never had anyone ask for fringe, so let's just call them bangs to be on the same page.

Emma Stone- Stephen Lovekin// Getty Images

When should you get bangs?- When a client comes in and wants a big change, but they don't want me to cut their length or color, I suggest bangs. Seriously, people come in wanting a change, but don't want to actually cut or color their hair. I think adding bangs to your look helps you feel totally different, but still allows you to have the familiarity of their length that so many people grow attached to.

But, and this is a BIG BUT, I don't think everyone is ready for bangs even if they say they want a change. I don't suggest you cutting bangs for the first time in the summer when it is hot out and you don't want hair around your face. Wait for either the fall or winter when it is cooler and you don't sweat as much. The point of a bang is to add framing to your face, if you don't like hair on your forehead, don't cut bangs.

Lilly Allen- Dave Hogan//Getty Images

What type of bang is best for me?- I like all types of lengths for a bang. I love a good strong front bang (think of a curtain), I also love a swept over bang that grazes on of the brows. I think the type of bang you get is really all determined on your hairline and your features. Your hairline basically is the end all in telling you what kind of bang you are going to get. If you have a really strong center cowlick, don't plan on having a bang, it probably wont work. If you have a really high forehead, a swept over bang wont be as easy as a front bang. If you have a really short forehead, bangs might swallow up your face and hide your eyes too much, so go for a longer sweeping bang. If you have a very dominate nose, a heavy bang might emphasize your nose, so you might want to think about a sweeping bang..... I could go on and on. These are just a few things to think about. I am sure your stylist could give you as much help and guidance as you would need.

Chelsea Hobbs- Valerie Macon//Getty Images

Are there any tricks in styling a bang?- I wash my hair as little as possible, like every other or every three days, but I wash my bangs EVERYDAY! I just wash it in the sink with my hair tied back. If I don't, they feel way too greasy and I can't stand it. I dry them in the direction I want them to lay (when my bangs were front bangs, I dried them down, when they were sweep bangs, I dried them over.) I NEVER use a round brush or a curling iron on my bangs when they were front bangs. THE MALL BANG IS DEAD! I mostly would only use a flat iron on my bangs to either smooth them out or bend the ends ever so slightly. As my bangs have grown, I like to flip them out a bit with my flat iron to give them a nice shape.

Swedish Singer Robyn- Robyn's Website

Does my face shape make a difference on what type of bangs I should have?- Yes, this goes along with the issues of hairlines and features. I have a round/square face and when my bangs are too short it only makes my face look rounder. I tend to have my bangs gradually go longer on the outer sides by the corner of my brows. This helps to frame my face and not make me look too full faced. Everyone is different, and it is hard to give a for sure answer to how things should work when I can't see you. There is always an exception to the rules. Just don't cut your own bangs. Let someone who knows what will work best on you do it for you.

Ok, I know this was WAY long. There is just so much to be said. I hope this sort of answers your questions. I have a post almost finished showing you how to work with your bangs as they grow out. I don't know why bangs are such a big deal, but women seriously lose sleep over bangs!! I swear it doesn't have to be traumatic. If you have any questions, let me know. Good luck.

Have a happy hair day!

Curl Love

2011-08-11T13:03:00.001-07:00

My awesome cousin, Stephanie, brought this article to my attention from the NYTimes. I am always in shock when I hear curly girls talk about having straight hair envy!! I would LOVE to have really curly hair. I guess the grass is greener on the other side. And, what do you think about these Drybars? Man, I love the power of hair!

Read the article here

Rainbow Colored Hair

2011-08-11T12:06:00.001-07:00

Remember back when I did this? No? Well I do. I loved it. There is something about adding bright colors to your hair that just makes you so happy. Did you have friends like I did who would try coloring their hair in the bathroom with Kool-Aid or the ever so popular Manic Panic? Now you can get it done at most salons, and the look is way less crazy. The colors come out richer and there is very little commitment since the color washes out after a few weeks.

What do you think? Would you ever die your tips? Or, are you daring like Katy Perry and go all out? I hear Sienna Miller is joining in the fun as well. I wonder who will be next....

Lauren picture found here

Katy Perry picture found h ere

Kate Bosworth found here

Time for Tuesday

2011-08-09T14:47:00.000-07:00

Don't you love to learn a new hobby? I love it. For the longest time I have wanted to become a better photographer. To capture my little family with some amazing photos is so important to me. My good friend Amelia Eve is a great photographer and she has started a little club where we go out to a park around town and shoot away. She teaches us as we go and everyone gives great feedback.

Obviously, I am still at the very beginning of my photo taking skills, but practice makes perfect.
The best part, besides me learning how to use my camera, is the chance to get outside. Taking his picture is pretty fun too.
Take a moment and capture some sweet moments on film. The more you use your camera, the better you will be. I don't ever expect to become a professional, but the time I take to learn now is helping to capture some really special memories.

Smooth Operator

2011-08-09T13:33:00.000-07:00

One way that I don't seem to wear my hair very often is smooth. I mean, who has the time in this heat to deal with smoothing out all the fly aways and crazy curl. It has been so humid that I find wearing it natural is so much easier. Luckily, the humidity seemed to take a little break the other day, so I jumped at the chance to smooth it out.

The key to wearing your hair smooth is to have silky and shiny hair. I already talked about my love for Moroccanoil and what it does for your hair, but let me introduce you to some other tips and products to get your hair nice and smooth.
1. It all begins in the drying of the hair. Don't blast the cuticle all over the place by drying your hair like a maniac, be really methodical about drying it in the direction of the hair shaft. This will dry the cuticle down and keep your fly aways at bay.

2. Before drying, use product that is meant to support a smooth style. I love Moroccanoil, but one of my other loves is a new product from Alterna called Brilliance Cream. This stuff is made to smooth your hair out. It tames frizz and strengthens your hair, while protecting your color. Bonus- it wont break the bank.

3. Dry your 100% don't leave any moisture in your hair to give it any excuse to frizz out with the first sign of humidity.

4. Once your hair is totally dry, spray your hair with a heat protector before you flat iron. My favorite is also from Alterna, but it is from their Caviar line. The Rapid Repair spray is a life savor, or should I say hair savor. It smooths your hair and protects it from the heat all while it add shine and vitamins to your hair. This is a little pricier than the Brilliance Cream, but it will last forever and you wont regret having it.

5. Section your hair off and start to flat iron. If you have a good flat iron this shouldn't be too difficult and the prep time you put in with the blow dryer should also help with this step.

When you are finished take a VERY SMALL amount of your Brilliance Cream and run it through your ends. You don't want anything too sticky since the point of this style is for your hair to feel and look like silk.

I know that wearing your hair smooth is close to impossible when it is humid out, and if you have natural curly hair, wearing it smooth takes forever. Just give it time and your hair will look awesome. And, it should last a few days if done right... just don't get caught in a rainstorm.

Have a happy hair day!

Sew very fun

2011-08-07T11:16:00.001-07:00

I have been working on these pants forever!! I saw them at my favorite sewing store here in Columbus, Sew to Speak, and I just had to get the pattern. Unfortunately, they came from a book that was out of stock. I decided to order the book from the library and see about copying the pattern. If I started on the pants right when I got the book, I would have been able to make like a dozen pairs by now. However, I am of the mindset that a project isn't worth doing unless you have it sitting around half done for a few months. I was so worried they wouldn't fit by the time I finished, that I went into overdrive yesterday and finally finished the pants. Lincoln was a little worried that they were too bright for Church. I think they totally worked.

Bonus: The pants are reversible, so I feel like I really made two pairs.

I guess I owe it to Project Runway for always putting the sewing bug in me. I have other half finished and not yet started projects that I am so excited to show you. I have a friend, Ashley who has the sewing bug big time! I am so impressed with the dresses she makes for church. You really must check out her blog for inspiration. I have been really into sewing blogs lately (don't worry, I plan on keeping this blog focused on hair and fashion) I am amazed at what some people think of. Here are some of my favorites.

icandyhandmade

sweetverbena

freshly picked

BEST SEWING TUTORIALS EVER

Let me know what you think. I want to see some of your projects and hear what you think about sewing. Is it worth it? Do you have any interest? Would you let your son wear hippo pants to church?

P.S. I know the pictures of Clark's new pants aren't very good, but it is the best we could do with a little boy after church who just can't sit still.

Did someone say "haircut?"

2011-08-05T13:04:00.000-07:00

I know teasing you like I did with the last post was just awful. I planned on posting pictures, but when I work two 11 hour days in a row, I just can't think about getting on the computer to post. So, here's the proof, I got a haircut. I didn't even really think about it, I just did it. Well, that's not true, my friend Jennifer did it. Even hairdresser don't cut their own hair- AND NEITHER SHOULD YOU! I needed my gray covered in a big way. Yes, I said gray, there is no shame in having it, if you cover it up. Anyways, I just decided then and there that it was time to cut. When you have a understanding about your hair, you don't get all freaked out about changes like this. Your hair can make you feel amazing or awful. It is all up to how you deal with it.

The cut is just brushing my shoulders on the sides, but has a slight angle to the front. I have only had it for seriously like two days, so I am still in that stage where I use too much product and I keep brushing my hair thinking I have more hair on the ends.

The fun thing about this change is that so many people would tell me that their hair was too short to do anything with it. I am determined to prove you all wrong. I plan on showing you many different styles and ways to wear your medium length cuts.

I know change can be scary, but take it from me, it can also feel SO good!

Cha Cha Cha Changes

2011-08-04T10:31:00.000-07:00

This time the change was with me!! I just cut a bunch of my hair off and I feel so good. I know I am such a tease for talking about it, but not showing you. Sorry, you will just have to wait until I actually take a picture. I love a good change!

The Bow-Bun

2011-08-03T11:22:00.000-07:00

I obviously failed in the picture taking department with these shots. What I wouldn't do for a tripod and remote. My photographer (aka Lincoln) was at work and I wasn't being patient enough to wait for him. I promise to do this again and have him take the pictures so you can get a better idea. I think my hair looks a little more Minnie Mouse then Lady Gaga.

Time for Tuesday

2011-08-02T11:01:00.000-07:00

We are all so different, from our style to our habits, to our likes and dislikes. We are so unique. The one thing we have in common is we all have exactly 24 hours in our day. Some of us might be busier than others, but some of us also might spend our time a little smarter than others. I want to start a new segment every tuesday that will help you find the time to do the small things. If we are challenged to accomplish little goals or tasks, we will feel so much better about ourselves once those goals are taken care of. Each tuesday I will feature a small easy task that will take you no more than five minutes to accomplish that when finished will help you feel better about yourself on the outside as well as on the inside. I know everyone can find five minutes in their 24 hour day to accomplish something to better themselves. Are you up for it?

Let's begin-

My BFF had the best gift idea for me on my birthday. She sent emails to 25 of my friends and relatives asking them to print off a post card she sent them and write a birthday note for me. It was awesome getting those cards in the mail. I heard from people I have not talked to in ages. Reading the messages brought tears to my eyes and I will keep those cards forever. Once all the cards were here I put them together like a puzzle to write out a message for me on my birthday. It was awesome.

Now, I am not asking you to do anything this grand for your "Time for Tuesday" task, this probably took Sarah WAY longer than 5 min. Instead, I want us all to write a simple card or postcard to someone special. There is something about the written word that is just so special. Don't get me wrong, emails are nice, but we all LOVE getting letters in the mail especially when they are not bills. Just take five minutes, it doesn't have to be fancy. After you send it off I promise you will feel great. And remember, feeling great and looking great go hand in hand. I know just the person I am sending my letter to. Let me know if you accomplished the task. Have fun.

The Braid Bar

2011-08-01T16:35:00.000-07:00

They just opened a new "Braid Bar" in a salon at Bergdorf Goodman in NYC. They are charging $45 for a braid that looks very similar to my Day 16- Birthday Hair. Would you pay someone that kind of money for a braid? I guess it is like a updo and braids can last. I might need to think about working that into my services...

http://nymag.com/daily/fashion/2011/08/best_bet_john_barretts_braid_b.html

Bald is Beautiful

2011-08-01T15:19:00.000-07:00

No, I am not talking about bald men, I am talking about bald women. I know, you were all thinking I was going to post about how men should just stop trying to fool themselves when they are thinning and shave their heads. However, the real issue is how so many women look totally gorgeous with a shaved head. Are you not convinced? Let me give you a few examples.

Isn't Sinead O'Connor gorgeous?! I have her greatest hits album and it is fantastic. "Nothing compares 2 U!" Ok, I get it, she got a little intense at times, but the girl can sing. And, look at her with no hair, HELLO.

Here is another example for all of you who are under the age of 30 and don't remember Sinead.

Natalie Portman is basically flawless, so when she shaved her head for her movie she totally rocked it.

Clearly both of these women have very strong bone structure and their eyes are HUGE allowing them to really pull off the shaved head look. I also think the darker features really help with the style. Let's not forget to point out how nice their ears lay down too. They both have grown their hair out and look totally different. Even though Sinead said she wouldn't do it, she did. Do you dare see what she looks like with hair? I don't think I would have liked the songs as much if they were sung by a lady with hair, ok, I probably would.

My question is, are these women brave or just really smart. Their careers really took a boost when they shaved their heads. Hair will always grow back, so maybe they just saw it as a way to get some notoriety. We all know a certain singer who shaved her head back in the day and got LOTS of attention for it. I really wish she would have just rocked her shaved head and not worn those awful extensions.

Anyways, would you ever do? Have you ever wanted to throw caution to the wind and just be bald and beautiful? Would you do it if you knew it could boost your career?

Natalie Portman picture taken from here.

Sinead O'Connor picture taken from here.

Giveaway Winner Announced!!

2011-07-31T17:51:00.000-07:00

I think the best part of a giveaway, is announcing the winner!! I wanted to be as fair as possible, so I put the number of people in this little randomizer thing and it came up with number 22. The 22nd person to leave a comment was Melody McBride!!! You are the first winner on my blog. I hope to have many more giveaways in the future. Thanks to all who tried and to all the people reading my blog.

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Melody said...

If I win this, can you teach me how to use it and do some of the styles you posted? I am a total amateur at hair, but I want to be better!

July 27, 2011 8:26 AM

Melody, I promise I will show you how to use the product and I will continue to show tutorials and talk about hair so you will no longer be a amateur of hair.

**Ok, I SWEAR the numbers were in the randomizer a minute ago. They are not showing on the post. Do you all believe me that it worked? Please, believe me! I would ask my computer tech. (Lincoln) how to fix it, but he is sleeping, so just take my word for it. Melody is the winner.**

Hair Tutorial- Chignon

2011-07-29T17:48:00.000-07:00

Tutorial Time!! So, remember Day 24 with the Chignon? I got a few requests to do a tutorial, and I can't resist when someone says pretty please. This tutorial is extra special because my dear Lincoln did the pictures. All together now, "Thanks, Lincoln!" He has such a eye for things. He put up a light and took a million pictures. It was so hot under that light it almost made me feel bad for real models, almost.

Here we go step by step (ooh, baby) how to do the chignon.

Step 1- Think about what you are going to do. Look off into the distance and contemplate the future of your hair... ok, really I am just making fun of the look on my face. The real first step is to curl ends under with a large iron.

Step 2- Separate hair into three sections by parting from the top of your hair to just above the ear.

Step 3- Backcomb hair at the crown and secure the back section into a low ponytail.

Step 4- Lift up the ponytail and bobby pin the ponytail to the back of your head. Be sure to add enough bobby pins on both sides so the hair doesn't come loose. This step is very important.

Step 5- Backcomb the underside of the ponytail.

Step 6- Wrap ponytail around hand and in a big loop and bobby pin the ends of the ponytail under the rubber band of the ponytail. Be sure to bobby pin on both sides of the loop.

Step 7- Take one of your side sections and backcomb the root, then wrap the section over the top and around the chignon.

Step 8- Secure the ends under the chignon and repeat with the other side.

If you have a bang section, style with a iron to add polish.

Spray the heck out of the chignon and smooth down any fly aways. (I did not spray it down or smooth it out before the picture was taken... as you can see.)

Have so much fun with this style. I think it is really easy and lovely to wear. I want updates on how it went when you all styled your hair like this, because we all know you will be styling your hair like this, right?

Have a happy hair day!

Cha-Cha-Cha Changes!

2011-07-28T12:26:00.000-07:00

You have to love a totally big new change. One where you walk into a room and people take a double take when they see you. I think there is something very brave and exciting about making a big change. I wanted to start recognizing people who make a change in their look. We are not talking a simple two inches off for a haircut, I want big, dramatic changes. Let's all inspire one another to see the many possibilities there are.

To start things off, I want to introduce you to Lane. She is the daughter of my dear friend and former college roommate, Serena. I know for a fact that Lane got some awesome hair genes. Lane is 6 going on 18. I swear she is so mature for her age. She decided to go short and donate her hair to Lock for Love after her friend donated her hair. To cut off that much hair is a HUGE shock for anyone, let alone a 6 year old. I had Lane fill out a little Q &A and I love her answers.

1. How old are you and do you think the cut made you look older or younger?

Six. I think I look older.

2. Who's idea was it to cut your hair and donate it to Locks for Love?

mine. My friend Avery gave her hair to locks for love and I thought it was cool to do it because people who have cancer get it and I thought it would be super helpful to give it to them.

3. Did you grow it out in order to donate it?

No, because I did not know about Locks of Love when I was growing it out.

4. Were you shocked when you first saw yourself in the mirror?

yes. I felt saddish and happyish (direct quote!) Happish because I cut my hair and gave it to locks of love. Saddish because I had beautiful long hair and I miss that hair except I still like my short hair better.

5. Did you get a good reaction from people when they saw your cut?

People say I look "pretty or gorgeous or outstanding!"

6. Is it easier or harder to do your hair now that it is shorter?

Easier because it doesn't hurt my hair as much anymore.

7. Do you think kids should be able to pick out the hairstyles they want, or should the parents decide?

I think kids should pick because I got to pick my own hair cut and it made me feel happy.

8. Will you grow it out again?

Yes. I saw a girl with dred locks on the tv yesterday who had really long hair. I don't want to grow it out like hers.

Ready for the big reveal? Introducing the new and totally adorable, Lane.

Isn't she just the cutest!! I think letting your little ones decide how they wear their hair is so important (within reason.) You can always guide and direct what they do, but try to let them feel some ownership on how their hair looks. As long as it is clean and free of major rat's nests, what do you have to lose?

Like I said, I love a big change. It is what so many of us need. I challenge you all to think of something that just isn't working for you and MAKE THE CHANGE.

Split Ends Giveaway!!

2011-07-25T23:58:00.000-07:00

I'm back!! I had a wonderful week filled with sun, water, naps, book reading, corn on the cob, friendship bracelet making, and family. It was glorious. I am back now, and ready for action.

Who wants a giveaway?!

I want to show my appreciation for all of you who have followed along and enjoyed my blog. I also want to know if anyone is following my blog, so I thought a little giveaway would be just the trick to figure it out.

I will give one lucky reader a bottle of my favorite product. You can't open a fashion or hair magazine without reading about this product. It is the awesome MOROCCANOIL.

I have almost all of my clients on this stuff. When I was on my vacation at the beach, I didn't use any other product but this. It is just what we all need to beat the heat this summer. Moroccanoil helps to control frizz, condition your hair, and it cuts your drying time way down. How great is that!! I want you all to be converted to this stuff. I really believe that using good products is key to having the best hair possible.

Here's how you enter-

1. FOLLOW my blog

2. LIKE my facebook page

3. POST a comment bellow.

You have to be a US resident to win (sorry) and you may only leave one comment. The giveaway ends this saturday, July 30.

I am so excited about this. Good Luck!!

Going Nude

2011-07-18T11:50:00.000-07:00

Get your head out of the gutter. I am not talking about being naked, I am talking about nude tights. I know what you are thinking, "Um, Mallory, aren't those only for grandmas and bank robbers to wear over their face?" Not anymore! Our lovely Dutchess Kate Middleton has been seen wearing them ALL over the place. This isn't some Princess rule she now has to follow people, she wears them because she WANTS to.

Photo by Lionel Hahn- WPA Pool/Getty Images

I guess this is all the rage over there across the pond. I for one find Kate's style to be so refreshing. I am so sick of girls looking like slobs (no offense, Ke$ha). Anyways, I love how she wears some of her core pieces over again, like her shoes and bag, and how she is always so polished and ladylike. The panty hoes are just another example of her feminine style. And, let's face it, I will take whatever I can get in order to hide my WHITE legs. What do you think? Will you be sporting some nude hoes anytime soon?

Things to come

2011-07-15T14:07:00.000-07:00

Dear Lovely Friends,

I have been thinking about my blog all day. I know that I am done with my 30 day challenge, but I still have so many ideas for what I want to do. I just finished another tutorial that I hope you will all love. They are having a challenge over at the beauty department for people to submit their hair tutorial. You can only imagine how totally excited I was to hear about this!!! My tutorial will be on the Chignon and it is a picture tutorial. Lincoln took all the pictures and really helped me to execute it well. I don't plan on posting the tutorial until it is all put together, so hold your horses, it's coming. Also, I know I hinted for a giveaway and then I didn't mention it again. SO sorry about that one. I do have plans for a giveaway, but when I mentioned it, I got all sick and didn't get around to it. I WILL DO A GIVEAWAY, MARK MY WORDS.

I am, however, on my way to a week vacation with my sisters and our kids. I can't wait. The poor husbands have to stay at home and work while we play with our lovely kiddos on the beach. I will post a bit, but not as often (obviously) since I will be focusing on the sunshine and the water. Thanks for following me thus far, I promise to try and make it worth your while.

Love,

Mallory

Day 30- "The Illusionist"

2011-07-14T17:06:00.000-07:00

I can't believe I have finished the 30 days! This day seemed so far away. I have had so much fun doing this. I have been challenged and encouraged the entire time. I want to keep the blog going the best I can. I want to focus on helping the average woman to know their beauty potential, both on the inside and out. I want to help others feel their very best. I am excited for where this blog is going and I look forward to seeing how it turns out.

I had a crazy day. Clark has had a rash all over his body for the last couple of days and I just didn't know what to do. I finally took him to the doctor and it turns out that he had hives from a virus. We need to wait and see if it continues to know if he is allergic to anything. Poor guy. So, I wasn't really in the mood to do something crazy with my hair, but I have really wanted to do this style. It is one of those trick styles where it looks like a shorter style, but it is really just tucked under. I love a good trick hairstyle. This makes me wonder if I should get my haircut...

Luckily, my little love bug was feeling much better.

Have a happy hair day!

Life Lesson

2011-07-13T20:30:00.000-07:00

If you are going to try to come out your crazy curls before you go to bed, be sure to start early enough so you can go to sleep at a decent hour.

This took forever!!

Day 29- "Side Knot"

2011-07-13T20:06:00.000-07:00

This prom season there were SO many girls that wanted their updo on the side rather than right in the back of their head. I am a big fan of this look. I love seeing it with a pretty flower or sparkly clip. I also don't think it is so dressy that you can't wear it during the day as well. I left my bangs out to add to the romance of the style. I am a big fan of flipping the bangs out when leaving them down. The rest of the hair was teased really well at the crown then pulled into a low side pony. I always take the pony on the opposite side of my part. After the pony is secured I twisted it around my hand almost like I was going to tie my hair into a knot, then secure the hair with a few bobby pins. Use the end of your rat tail comb under the hair at the crown to give it some lift. Spray it, and go.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 28- "The Lucille Ball"

2011-07-12T17:51:00.000-07:00

When you have day two of curls like this, you don't want to get rid of them right away. I was surprised to see how in tact they were. Today was a super hot day and I had to wear it up. I had so many people tell me I looked like I was Lucille Ball or Emma. What do you think

Day 27-"Irish Dancer"

2011-07-11T20:29:00.000-07:00

I don't know where to start with this one. There are so many things going on in my head with these crazy curls. My little sister is doing a challenge as well on her own blog. I saw her crazy curls and I just had to try it. I picked up the sponge rollers from her late last night, and I was so excited to get started. I washed and conditioned my hair then put some silk in it before I wrapped it in about a million of the smallest sponge rollers you have ever seen!! Lincoln kept telling me that it felt like he was in the 1940's with a wife going to bed with curlers in her hair. When I took out of the rollers this morning, it looked like this.

Yes, I know, I look like Richard Simons. Needless to say, I was a little freaked about what I was going to do about styling it since I was running late to work and having a hairdresser with sausage rolls for hair is not a good look. Luckily, I had a really cool first client who loved the idea of what I was doing and thought the curls were "cute." Right. Once I finished her I was able to run some putty and spray wax through the curls and shake them out a little. Don't ever try to brush your curls!!! Not unless you want a fro. By the end of the day my curls were looking more like this.

Day 26- "Sweet and Simple Hair"

2011-07-10T21:19:00.000-07:00

Lincoln suggested that I was trying to make my hair too intricate and that I was either going to burn myself out or I was getting to complicated. I totally agree. I decided to just do some simple braids on the side of my head and pinning them around the back of my head. Like a little crown if you will. It is sweet and easy and it takes no time at all. You don't have to spend forever on your hair in order for it to look nice and polished.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 25-"Hiking Hair"

2011-07-09T17:19:00.000-07:00

We are getting so close to the end, and this is what I come up with. I am a little ashamed. It was my day off so, Lincoln and I packed up the car and headed out for a day in nature. We had a great time hiking and spending time outside. Clark was great and the weather couldn't of been better. We came home and stayed busy with all of the little things that you do on a saturday. I even took a little nap, it was awesome. THEN, and only then did I think to take a picture of my hair. You can see that it was a total mess after all the running around. A more put together person would have fixed it, but not me, I wanted to show you what it looked like after my long day. I knew I would be busy today and I would be out and about, so all I really wanted to do was wear a ponytail. But not just a regular ponytail, one with a little pizzaz.

I sectioned my hair in two parts, top and bottom. I did two dutch braids starting at my ears and meeting in the middle of my head. I then just made a simple ponytail. It was so easy. And clearly it lasted all day even with the hiking, napping, cleaning, grocery shopping, cooking... you get the idea. What a great day!

Day 24-"Chignon"

2011-07-08T16:58:00.000-07:00

Someone once asked what the difference between a bun and a chignon. Well, not much. If you look at the true definition, you will see that they are very similar.

chi·gnon

noun \ˈshēn-ˌyän also -ˌyȯn\

Definition of CHIGNON

: a knot of hair that is worn at the back of the head and especially at the nape of the neck

¹bun

noun \ˈbən\

: a sweet or plain small bread; especially : a round roll

: a knot of hair shaped like a bun

plural : buttocks

It really is all relative. I would consider a chignon to be on the lower part (nape) of the head with a smoother shape. The bun can be anywhere on the head with a twisted or braid pattern. Like how I wore the back of my hair on day 4, I would consider that to by a bun. Really, I don't think the world would end if you called a bun a chignon and a chignon a bun. As long as it's pretty in the end. Right?

Have a happy hair day!

Day 23-"Curling Iron Curls"

2011-07-07T10:51:00.000-07:00

I know what you are all thinking. "Didn't she do this look on day 2?" NO, I did not. That was done with a flat iron, this was done with a curling iron. See the difference? NO? Ok, let me point out that the hair is fuller and the curls are bigger and rounder. Still don't see the difference? Well, we can't win them all. I like the body that my hair gets with a curling iron. I don't think everyone knows how to master a flat iron curl, so I wanted to show that you can still get the look you want with a curling iron.

Have a happy hair day!

Four-Strand Braid Tutorial

2011-07-07T10:22:00.000-07:00

Here it is. The braids everyone has been asking about. Let me know what you think. I want to hear from you on whether you were able to figure it out or not. Enjoy!

Have a happy hair day!

Day 22- "Knot so Hard"

2011-07-06T17:00:00.000-07:00

Almost all of my updos start with what I taught on day 7. I almost always start with a little backcombing in the crown securing it with two bobby pins on either side. I then took my hair in three sections on either side of my head and just did a square knot all the way down until there was no hair left to tie. I secured with a few bobby pins and I was done. It was so easy.

You can leave your ends sticking out all crazy, or you can tuck them in. I promise I did this in no time. I even had little Clark around being cute. Just goes to show you, being a mom doesn't mean you have to have stupid hair.
Have a happy hair day!

Day 21-"Waterfall Braid"

2011-07-05T16:15:00.000-07:00

Today was a day for experimenting. I saw this braid online and I wanted to give it a shot. It isn't as exciting as I wanted it to be. I felt a little old school. In fact, the other day I asked my brother if my outfit was a little too 1997, his response, "wow, it is getting hot this summer." So, I guess that was his way of answering my question as nice as possible. Maybe that interaction has made me a little sensitive to looking stuck or trapped in time. I don't think this hairstyle is doing me any favors in keeping me fashion forward. Oh, well.

The way to do this braid, is to drop the bottom section rather than joining it with a new section you pick up. The new section you pick up becomes the new bottom section. It sounds complicated, but it was really easy. And, like I said before, I don't think I executed it very well. I guess that is to be expected after trying to style your hair different for 30 days. There is bound to be a day that you don't like.

Better luck tomorrow. Have a happy hair day.

Mastering the French Braid

2011-07-05T16:11:00.000-07:00

This tutorial gave me quit a fit. I wanted to post it yesterday with my last post, but for some reason it was not loading. So, here it is my French Braid tutorial. I know that some of you know how to do this, but for those of you who have never figured it out, this video is for you. I did both the dutch braid and the french braid. Enjoy!!

Have a happy hair day!!

Day 20- "Oh No She Didn't"

2011-07-04T20:20:00.000-07:00

If you have not mastered the art of french braiding your hair by now, you probably think all is lost in ever learning how. I would like to challenge that way of thinking by telling you that you CAN do it. There are so many people out there who struggle with the simple task of weaving their hair back and forth while picking up small strands of hair to join the weave. I promise it is all about practice. I would suggest you get the hang of it on someone else's head first if you are really struggling. It is all about seeing the pattern and keeping the sections clean. Here are the simple steps to remember when french braiding.

1. Only make one pass of each strand before picking up small sections to join with the two outside strands.

2.Hold the three strands of hair in one hand, in between different fingers, while the other hand picks up hair on either side.

3.Hold the hair as close to the base as possible, not at the ends where the hair will braid too loose and fall out of the braid.
4. Make sure each section you pick up is the same amount of hair each time.
5. Repeat over and over until you reach your hairline, or your desired spot.

I swear it is that easy!

I am trying to make my face have as much attitude as possible, am I pulling it off? Ok, maybe not. Just promise me you will try to french braid your hair if you don't know how, and if you do, try the dutch braid. You wont regret it.

Have a happy hair day!

There was supposed to be a new tutorial with a how to on french braiding, but I can't get it to work. So, I will have to have Lincoln post it tomorrow. It is late and if I wake him up to show me how I would be a bad wife. I promise you will get it tomorrow. Pinkie swear!

Day18-"Not So French Twist"

2011-07-03T16:44:00.000-07:00

You know when you have a big event in the distant future and you want your hair to look gorgeous so you start to grow it out so it can go up into a style, well let me just tell you, you don’t have to grow it too long. In fact, my hair was TOO long to do what I wanted to do today. I wanted to throw it up into a simple French twist, but it totally didn’t turn out due to the extra five inches of hair I still had left out of the twist when I was done. Now, if I had planned ahead I would have curled my hair really well so the ends could have curled up into a nice bun on top of the twist, but I didn’t plan ahead and my hair was too straight to cooperate. I tell you all this, because you need to know that some girls come into see me for Prom or a wedding and they have worked really hard to grow their hair out so I can do a style on them. When really, their hair could have just has easily gone up with four inches less of hair. The style I did today, for example, could have been so much better if I had hair four to five inches shorter. People keep telling me that they like the 30 day challenge, but they have shorter hair and what I do wont work for them. I promise you can do more than half of the things I have done with shoulder length hair. For starters, you could get a much better French twist.

Day 18-"Four-Strand Flat Braid"

2011-07-02T12:58:00.000-07:00

I love this braid. It is so much easier than it looks and it is so pretty. I usually only do it when I pull a small amount out of my face like the picture. I like the fact that it isn't your average braid, but is just as easy. I have a tutorial coming showing you how to do it, but being sick really put a halt on the tutorial. I felt like my head needed a little break from my hair being up so much, so I thought a simple braid would work

Have a wonderful weekend and enjoy some fireworks!!

Day 17- "Sweet Swiss Miss" or "Almost Amish"

2011-07-01T12:53:00.000-07:00

I am not too sure about this look. I see it on other people and I think it looks great. On me, however, it looks and feels a little Amish. I love the Amish, I just don't want to be mistaken for one. What do you think, does it work? Have you tried it? I think my braids got too thin on the ends and it didn't stay as think as it should on the top. Oh, well. It was a fun try

Oh, and don't mind the light fixture in the background. :)

Have a happy hair day! It's so good to be back!

On the mend

2011-06-30T11:39:00.000-07:00

When I started this 30 day adventure I never planned on getting sick in the middle of it. I had a high fever, ear infections, and a killer sore throat, it just about knocked my socks off. I wanted to post hair pictures for those two days, but I also didn't think you needed to see me with awful sweaty bed head. I was a mess. So, let's continue on like this never happened. I wanted to share with you a very interesting color technique that my BFF showed me the other day. Do you look at the Beauty Department? NO?!! Well you should. It was started by our good friend Lauren Conrad and some of her trusty beauty guru's. Check it out. Anyways, before you head on over there, take a look at that color technique I was talking about. What do you think? Is it going to catch on? Would you ever?

Day 17- "Hair? Oh yeah, I have hair."

2011-06-28T21:58:00.000-07:00

This is Lincoln posting on Mallory's behalf for day 17. Unfortunately she came down with something nasty late Monday night/early Tuesday morning and just hasn't felt well since then.

Understandably, she didn't really have the opportunity nor the energy to do something today. She looks forward to continuing her posts as soon as she feels better.

To compensate, I present to you the following sleepy kitten:

Day 16- "Birthday Hair"

2011-06-27T20:08:00.000-07:00

That's right, it's my birthday!! I am not one for making a big deal of my birthday, but it turned out to be a really nice day. Spending my day at work was not something I wanted to do, but it turned out fine. I was able to block out some time to have dinner with Lincoln and Clark before I headed back to finish a few more clients. I love living close to the salon!!!

To continue with "braid week" I did a dutch braid zig-zag across my head. A dutch braid is basically a regular braid, but inside out. You turn the hair out as you braid, and to get the zig-zag, you only pick up the hair for one side of the braid. Am I confusing you yet? Well, I will just have to do a video to show you. But for now, I am going to bed. It's my birthday after all, I am getting older and these late hours are killing me. :)

Have a happy hair day!!

Pardon the interruption...

2011-06-26T18:41:00.001-07:00

but are they not the cutest things ever!! I made this tie for Lincoln like forever ago (seriously, I think it has been a few years) but I only just finished it for Father's Day. I had extra fabric so I couldn't resist making a little tie for the Clarkster.

What do you think, will they ever agree to match outfits again?

Day 15- "Rope-Braids"

2011-06-26T18:31:00.000-07:00

Today marks the first day of "BRAID WEEK!" I hope you are all as excited as I am. I want to open your eyes to the wonderful world of braids and twists. Oh, my!

Today I wore my hair with two rope-braids down either side of my head. I finished the braids off in the middle back of my head, then I just twisted them up and secured them with bobby pins. SO EASY!

I actually fell asleep on the couch before Lincoln could take the picture, so it is a little frizzy, but still in tact.

I have many braid tutorials coming, AND.... A GIVEWAY!!! So, get excited.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 14- "Four-Strand Rope Braid"

2011-06-25T17:28:00.000-07:00

Today has been a day of scrubbing toilets and mopping floors. It was a day of laying low. I wanted to show the four-strand rope braid so you could see how pretty your hair can look with all the variations of braiding. Even if I don't look so great, don't mind the stain on my shirt, my hair is out of my face and woven into a fun little braid.
I am declaring next week "Braid Week" I will only do my hair with variations of braids and twists. I will have tutorials on most of the braids, including this one, and other more intricate braids. So, if you don't know how to braid your own hair, get ready, you will know by the end of the week.

Have a happy hair day!!

Baby Hair

2011-06-24T18:04:00.000-07:00

I have been getting some great questions and I wanted to be sure to answer them all without boring you with a huge post. Some of the questions are similar or repeated, and some are really detailed. I hope my answers will help you better understand your hair.

I have a question. I've asked you before; but my now 21 month old is getting more of a mullet. My hairstylist suggest trimming it all over. What do you think?

Most babies have a weird growth pattern to their hair and you can never predict when the hair will start to grow in even. I encourage giving your kids shorter cuts to even out the growth if you are really concerned with their hair being all over the place. However, some little tykes don't have any growth on the sides or even in the back where it has worn down from laying on their backs, don't mess with going that short. In that case, you are talking buzzing or shaving the head, don't do it. Let's be honest, we are talking about babies or really little kids, having crazy hair can be cute. I had no hair for the longest time as a baby. Patience is key. Their hair will grow and you don't want to make any drastic changes that you will regret.

Any suggestions on what to do with post partum hair that's now falling out?! Ugh, I hate this stage!

Post partum hair is the worst!! I mean we are already dealing with a huge change to our bodies and our sleeping, but to mess with our hair!! I feel for you. I have SO many clients who come in with super short hair all along the hairline that just drives them crazy. I also have some clients who come in with super curly hair after having straight hair their entire lives. Talk about frustrating. The answer.... I don't have one.

I know, I am really not doing well with this Q and A thing.

Look, when you are dealing with hormone changes (the reason your hair is falling out, curling, straightening, what have you) there is nothing you can do but let your hormones balance out again. I would suggest that your best way to deal with it is to keep taking your prenatal vitamins and maybe a folic acid or B complex. These things will keep your body regulated and give you the strength your hair needs. You didn't loose almost any hair while pregnant, so it is all coming out now and freaking you out. I promise you wont go bald. If the short hair around your face is really driving you nuts, I might suggest you get bangs to blend in the short hair. Your hair is a product of what is going on inside of your body. Having a baby is BIG work. It just makes sense that you will see it in your hair. At least you have a little cutie pie to make up for it. Hang in there, before you know it your baby will be out of diapers and your hair will be all shiny and glorious again.

Day 13-"Who says you can only wear one?"

2011-06-24T17:46:00.000-07:00

Oh, what's that? You thought I decided to wear just a lame ponytail for day 13?

Wrong, I decided to wear THREE ponytails!! Some of you asked me where I came up with the bun-hawk, and here it is. I used to wear my hair like this as my go to style until a girl told me it looked dumb. I was pretty upset and thought about retiring the look. But, then I remembered that she has the same haircut since the third grade and I have never seen her wear anything but sensible shoes. So, the triple pony rides again. It isn't too obvious that you have three ponies in there until you move them around a bit. I can't wear my hair in a pony to work, so this is my day off style.

Bonus! Check out the action shot. You thought it was fun to swing one pony around, try three!!

Don't mind my regrowth in the back. It is all part of my long term hair goal. I wanted to grow my color out a little so it can be ready for my next hair transformation. You need to prepare for these things.

Have a happy hair day!

TOOLS

2011-06-23T23:45:00.000-07:00

I have been getting so many requests to share with you all the products I use as well as the tools. I know it is going to be a bit overwhelming, so I wanted to do this with baby steps. I want to start out small and talk about the tools I use. There are so many tools and gadgets (just ask Lincoln and he will tell you what our bathroom looks like) but these are what I am currently using.

COMBS-

I LOVE my combs. I honestly don't brush my hair, I comb it. I use a wide tooth comb to work out my snarls and to put my hair up in a pony or bun. I love it. If you use the wrong brush or a fine tooth comb, you can pull too much on your hair and cause breakage. I know many stylist who love their brushes, but I am a sucker for a good comb. The other comb that is key is a rattail comb. I HATE all things rodents, but for some reason this comb's name doesn't seem to bother me. I prefer the metal rattail to smooth out curls in a updo or to make a part. I also want the comb part to be fine so I can get a good back combing out of it. (I also mostly use this comb for my weaving, but I doubt you will be using it for this reason.)

BRUSHES-

I know I said I don't use brushes, but I wasn't talking about ROUND brushes. I find that my hair is a little too long to work a round brush easily. However, I almost always use it to style my bangs and the front layers. When I had shorter hair, I used a round brush to style my hair all the time. I like the brush to have a metal base so when it heats up with my blowdryer the brush warms up and produces a better curl or smooth look. It also needs to have a handle that I can grip and manage without my hand slipping. The bigger the round brush, the more volume you will get, the smaller the brush, the more curl. That same thing goes for curling irons as well. And speaking of curling irons...

CURLING IRONS-

I have three different size irons. I use all of them for different reasons. Like I said about the brushes, the bigger the barrel, the more volume. I often use my biggest iron to give the same look as my round brush since my hair is getting so long and using a round brush on it can be difficult. I use the smaller size for tight curls with lots of bounce. I use the marcel style curling irons which are more professional and faster to use. It does take practice to learn how to use them, so I would suggest you just stick with the spring loaded kind. I like the Helen of Troy irons. They get really hot fast and they last forever.

FLAT IRONS-

You CANNOT go cheap on a flat iron. I see clients all the time coming to see me with major damage and breakage from cheap flat irons. There are a few things that are a MUST when buying a flat iron. First of all, it has to be ceramic not metal. The metal will scratch your hair and it doesn't distribute the heat properly along the plates. Second, the heat has to distribute evenly along the plates. When the heat doesn't distribute evenly, you have to work harder to achieve your look which in turn causes more damage. And finally, make sure it has beveled edges so you can use it to curl as well as smooth your hair. I get so bugged when someone wont spend the money on a nice flat iron and instead buys a $60 iron that ruins their hair and ends up breaking since it is so cheap. Right now I have two irons that I use all the time on myself and clients. I have had both of them for over three years. Get a nice iron!! The flat irons I own are FHI irons. I think they work great, and heat up super fast. I could spend an entire post talking about flat irons, but I wont bore you. Just remember, if you are going to flat iron your hair everyday, you might as well spend the money.

HAIR DRYERS-

This is a tough one for me. When I first started at the salon, I went through four hair dryers in a year and a half. It has to have the right weight, heat, ionic, air flow, handle... I am very picky. I am using a FHI dryer at the salon, but a no name one at home. The best advice I can give about dryers is to be aware of any changes in the heat. If you have had the dryer forever, it might be time to purchase a new one. When dryers get to be too old, they start to over heat and can cause some major damage. I can't tell you how many dryers I have tried, and I still have not found the perfect one. As long as it can dry the hair fast and safe, I'll use it.

Was that enough reading for today? I am sure I forgot some details or tool that I am not thinking about. Just remember, I have been doing this for awhile and there is always a new iron or comb or technique that is coming out. That is what I love about my job so much. Things will always get better, but for now, these are the tools that I love.

Day 12- "Ballerina Bun"

2011-06-23T19:36:00.000-07:00

I LOVE the ballerina bun! It is the easiest style with the best response that I do. I studied ballet for a large part of my young life, so it is only natural for me to wear this style with pride. I know you have seen it around, but do you know how to do it? Well, now you do. Enjoy the tutorial.

FYI- I always smooth out the bun in the back when I am finished, I just didn't do it very well in the video. And, just in case some of you are using your Nancy Drew skill and wondering why I am wearing a different outfit in the video, I did the video on one of my days off. However, I swear to you that I didn't cheat and I did wear my hair like this today. The picture was taken after my long 11 hour day, and the bun is still going strong. I challenge you to give it a try and make it your own. I sometimes add a fabric flower or I twist the hair as I wrap it around. Do your thing and let me know how it goes.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 11- "Second day curls"

2011-06-22T12:31:00.000-07:00

It's all about the head scarf!! I love wearing headbands or scarves to tame my hair. I woke up this morning with a head full of bouncy curls from yesterday's due, and I for sure didn't want to work too hard on styling it if I already had something going on, so in comes the scarf. (Was that a run on sentence or what?!) This is one of my favorite scarfs to wear in my hair. It is long enough to wrap around my head twice and it isn't too silky so it doesn't slip out. I got it from UO like forever ago. I also find great headbands and accessories at Forever 21 and my all time favorite place to buy really nice hair accessories is J.Crew. They have gorgeous things for your hair.

All I'm saying is you don't have to just wear a sad twist tie in your hair to get it out of your face. Be adventurous. Wear a scarf, it's not just for your neck!

Have a happy hair day!

Day 10- "Anniversary Hair"

2011-06-21T14:04:00.000-07:00

Happy anniversary to Lincoln and me!!! It has been three awesome years. I wanted to do something fancy. I think you should all know that you can do something glamorous at home. It can't be as polished and perfect when you are doing it on your own head, but it can look great.I wanted to top and sides to be really soft and have everything just blend into the back.

I first start with tons of tight little curls all pined up on my head. I let them cool off and I just sort of get stuff done. This is when I would do my makeup, but since it was done, I just fead Clark. You can choose what you want to do...

After you take your curls down, they will be bouncy and soft. With your fingers just rake the curls back to a loose messy bun. The curls will hold and make it look fancy and nice. Use your bobby pins to secure the ends and spray it like crazy. The reason it doesn't sound technical is because it isn't. Just let it be organic and soft. Have fun and enjoy your sexy curls.

Have a happy hair day!

P.S. I did another tutorial today. Not for this hairstyle but another I will wear another day. I wanted to be prepared. It is one of my favorite hair styles, so get excited!!

Day 9- "The Bun-Hawk"

2011-06-20T12:25:00.000-07:00

Who says you have to only wear one? I want to wear three. I like my buns to be nice and messy. I don't mind if there are hairs twisting out all over the place. It looks nice all sleek and polished too, but sometimes you need to just not worry about it. I challenge you to try it.

I always start with the top bun. I have my hair parted on the side and just sort of swept back with the hair. I think you can part it just about anyway you want. I have a tendency to twist my buns the same direction and when I pin them, I pin in a X . I use only about 3-4 bobby pins per bun. I usually rake my fingers along the sides to blend the part a little, give it some spray, and I'm out the door. Give it a try. This works with shoulder length hair too, you just might need to use rubber bands to hold the buns in place.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 8- "Father's Day Hair"

2011-06-19T17:21:00.000-07:00

Happy Father's Day!! I wanted to show my appreciation to Lincoln by wearing my hair the way he likes it. Lincoln is amazingly supportive when it comes to my crazy love of all things girly. I have more clothes then I need (did I just admit to that?), I have SO much makeup and I write a blog about how I style my hair. HELLO!!! I don't think he knew what he was in for when we got married, but he is very supportive and helpful. (Who do you think takes most of the pictures?) Anyway, I wanted to show my love for him by wearing my hair the way he likes most- straight.

When I do a intricate style or lots of curls I NEVER let him run his fingers through my hair until the end of the night so he doesn't mess it up. However, when it is straight he can play with it to his hearts content. I added the braids to give some character to the otherwise straight hair. I have two on my left side, one on top of the other...
...and one french braid on this side. The braids help to keep the hair out of my face and they are so in right now. Thank you Lauren Conrad for making them so mainstream.
You want this simple look? Here are some key things you need to know.

STRAIGHT HAIR-

Assuming you have smooth hair and it isn't TOO curly, here is the 411 on straightening out your hair. You have to smooth it out as best you can while you blow dry! Having a good silk product (my favorite is Moroccan Oil!!!) is so important. It will help to smooth out your hair as well as protect it. Use your hands or a wide tooth comb as you dry it to make it as smooth as possible. Once it is 100% dry it is time to section it off into small sections to flat iron it. Section it much like the way I showed you in the Loose Curl tutorial. Use small sections for best results. I would also recommend a heat protector to help fight fly aways and damage (caviar anti-aging rapid repair spray is my favorite). Using a good straightener is CRUCIAL to getting a nice smooth style. If you use one that is not a ceramic flat iron you are doing some major damage. I know that they are not cheap, but if you use it all the time, and you don't want to ruin your hair... THEN GET ONE THAT COUNTS! It is worth the money, I promise. I use a FHI flat iron. I know this is a really quick rundown, but I have a feeling most of you get the idea. If there are any questions, let me know and I will address them.

FRENCH BRAIDS-

Hrmmm, where do I begin? It is like a braid, but attached to the head. I guess the only way to explain it is to show you. I might have to do a tutorial later. The way I learned is on my sisters head when I was about 9 or 10. I did it over and over again while we watched the Disney Channel family movie. Once you figure it out, you can do it anywhere. I will show you looks with different braids in the future. They are so fun and so important to know. Well, at least I think they are.

Ok, that was way too much writing. Are you still with me? I challenge you to wear braids in your hair and make sure it is touchable for your love. If not for your love, then for you.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 7- "What's holding your hair back?"

2011-06-18T20:45:00.000-07:00

I know that some of you are going to take one look at this hair style and think, "LAME!" But, wait, I want to explain. I think it is important to know how to pull your hair back away from your face, but still giving you volume and hold. You need to know secure your hair back with only bobby pins (and not using a rubber band) so you can better understand how to start a updo. And, I also think it is crucial to know how to do this with using the least amount of bobby pins possible. THIS is why I styled my hair like I did, to get you on track to knowing how to really style your hair. Your'e welcome.

Let's begin. You can see that I have a nice bump at my crown with smooth sides pulled back. Below is a step by step on how to achieve said style.

Step 1. Take your crown section and give yourself some nice back combing. After the back combing, bobby pin only the crown section down by putting a bobby pin on either side of the section. Remember, this is only the crown. You are leaving the front sides out for now. Step 2- Take on of the side parts and smooth it across the two bobby pins holding the crown section down. Place a third bobby pin under the bobby pin opposite from the side you are working on. Slide it in straight not at an angle, this will help the bobby pin hide under the hair.

Step 3- Take the other side and repeat what you did with the first side by sliding a bobby pin in under the other pin holding the crown in place.
Step 4- (I admit, I didn't do this step very well for the picture.) You now need to make sure the hair is hiding the pins and the strand are held in place.
I didn't get a good chance to look in the mirror as I was doing these pictures, but you get the idea. I love using this technique when I start many of my updos so the style doesn't weigh down the crown and make the hair too flat on top. I always use bobby pins and rarely do I use hair pins or straight pins. I know this doesn't look like much, but once you understand how to put a bobby pin in, you can do so much with your hair.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 6- "Loose/Beach Waves" and a TUTORIAL

2011-06-17T19:44:00.000-07:00

Ok, I have had a day filled with learning experiences. First off, I learned that doing video tutorials is HARD. You know how much you hate hearing your own voice recorded, try watching yourself explaining how to curl your hair!!! It was a train wreck. Luckily I have a really handy husband who was able to turn my almost 30 minute video filled with babies crying and husbands coming home early and scaring me, and lots of mess ups and pauses, down to almost 8 minutes. You can all thank him in your hearts, cause he really saved you from a painful experience. The second thing I learned was how often I look down and say "um" and talk with my hands and... I could go on and on. I guess we are our own worse critic.

I had to edit out the entire section on product knowledge and how to use it. It just didn't flow. I promise to talk about that soon. I think it is a big deal to use the right product and I want you all to be educated. I also had to edit out a few of the questions that many of you have been asking me. Lincoln thought it sounded like I was rambling, and he was totally right. Let's not forget that this is my first tutorial and I have learned so much. I promise they will only get better from here. I hope you enjoy.

Have a happy hair day!

Day 5- "Topping off a fishtail"

2011-06-16T17:22:00.000-07:00

Today was a day to wear a hat and sport the classic fish braid. I have to admit, I am not very good at doing this braid. I can do braids in my sleep, but the fish braid always seems to get the best of me. The hat was for added style and for sun protection. You can never be too careful when it comes to those pesky UV rays. I have a really large head, so I usually have a difficult time finding hats that fit. I found this lovely at Target in the guy's department!! I am not above wearing a guys hat.

Today's tip- Embrace the bobby pin! I have a HUGE box that seems to be used more than anything else. Lincoln is always finding them all around the house. Sorry honey! But seriously, USE BOBBY PINS!!! I will be using them in almost all of my styles, so go out and get some today.

Have a happy hair day!

Split Ends & New Beginnings

For posterity

Me and My Boys

Happy New Years's!

Clark is getting so big

So You Think You Can Sew

Urban Cowgirl

TOP 6!!!

So You Think You Can Sew; Week 2- Refurbish

So, You Think You Can Sew- Week 2; Refurbish TUTORIAL

My new obsession

The Crib Caddy

Christmas music I love

Christmas music I love

Christmas music I love

Confusing our kid one fake beard at a time

Thankful for getting away

Activity Day

Happy Birthday Clark!

I love Marcel the Shell With Shoes On

You were a little late

"So, you think you can Sew"

How to cut a baby's hair

Just ROLL with it

The Costumes

Halloween- then and now

Stiff Upper Lip

Wrap it up

Tie one on

I'm not dead...

Fall Trends- according to InStyle

Blonde Ambition

Video Tutorial- Flat Iron Curls

"In the Dressing Room with Cat Deeley"

Time for Tuesdays

Going Short

Short Hair- Glamorous Style

The Versatile Blogger Award

Sew very fun- Guest Post

What was I thinking?

Time for Tuesday

Ginger Love- Sarah

First the worst, Second the best

Bangs, Color, Eyes

What was I thinking?

Time for Tuesdays

Cha Cha Cha Changes- Alex

She Bangs!

Bangs 101

Curl Love

Rainbow Colored Hair

Time for Tuesday

Smooth Operator

Sew very fun

Did someone say "haircut?"

Cha Cha Cha Changes

The Bow-Bun

Time for Tuesday

The Braid Bar

Bald is Beautiful

Giveaway Winner Announced!!

Hair Tutorial- Chignon

Cha-Cha-Cha Changes!

Split Ends Giveaway!!

Going Nude

Things to come

Day 30- "The Illusionist"

Life Lesson

Day 29- "Side Knot"

Day 28- "The Lucille Ball"

Day 27-"Irish Dancer"

Day 26- "Sweet and Simple Hair"

Day 25-"Hiking Hair"

Day 24-"Chignon"

chi·gnon

Definition of CHIGNON

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Day 23-"Curling Iron Curls"

Four-Strand Braid Tutorial

Day 22- "Knot so Hard"

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